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tobelander

30 M Los Angeles, CA

My Details

Last Online
Apr 10
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 8″ (1.73m)
Body Type
Fit
Diet
Strictly anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Agnosticism, but not too serious about it
Sign
Libra, and it’s fun to think about
Education
Graduated from university
Job
Entertainment / Media
Income
$50,000–$60,000
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Offspring
Pets
Likes dogs and likes cats
Speaks
English (Fluently), Rotuman (Fluently), Japanese (Okay), C++ (Poorly), Ilongo (Fluently)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
"A tramp, a gentleman, a poet, a dreamer, a lonely fellow, always hopeful of romance and adventure." Major points if you can name who said that.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I write for the screen both big and small. I would like to venture into the stage soon.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Brevity.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
That I'm laughing much too loud.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Music:
I will listen to nearly anything. I prefer it live if I can. Give me someone with a guitar (or a piano) singing about something personal and I'm hooked.

Books:
Fahrenheit 451, Danny the Champion of the World, Mossflower, Watership Down, Siddhartha, Jimmy Corrigan, On The Road, Big Sur...

Movies:
This would be an insanely long list. We'll just leave it at that I've seen "Swingers" probably 30 times or more. I've lost count.

Food:
Japanese, Sushi, Lime fruit pops, Trader Joe's garlic vegetarian pizza (RIP), cinnamon swirl bread is so so awesome, Fresh salmon, Chocolate filled croissants, Anything my friend's wife makes, Taco Trucks, trucks, trucks, street food from around the world. Who am I kidding? Pretty much any and all Trader Joe's food.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
A word processor. Movies. Music. Good Food. My Friends. Other creative people to inspire me.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
What's next?
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Writing, going to a movie, staying in and watching a movie, going to a concert, reading, surfing the web, playing my guitar, getting drinks with friends.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I used to dye my beard because it grows blonde in the middle.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 22–30
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
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You think it would be cool.
You wanna give me money.