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tobyn1

40 M Chico, CA

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 12:22am
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
6′ 3″ (1.91m)
Body Type
Diet
Smokes
Trying to quit
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Religion
Agnosticism, and laughing about it
Sign
Aquarius, and it’s fun to think about
Education
Graduated from university
Job
Art / Music / Writing
Income
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Offspring
Pets
Likes dogs and likes cats
Speaks
English (Fluently), German (Okay), Spanish (Poorly), French (Poorly)

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My self-summary
I'm an intelligent, easy-going, fun-loving, outgoing, thoughtful, expressive, inquisitive, compassionate and charismatic man who apparently likes to overuse adjectives whenever possible ;-) (Pretty consistently ENFP on the Myers-Briggs scale...for what it's worth)

I enjoy time with family and friends, being outdoors, traveling, watching live music. But (like everyone else on this thing it seems) I also enjoy quiet nights at home, cooking good food, sharing some wine and good company. Lately, life has been changing fast and I would like to meet someone to share these changes with me. I'm mostly looking to meet new people right now, but romance is always nice and always welcome with the right person. Essentially, I think life is just pretty damned great, and it would fantastic to find someone to share the good moments with.

Ideally, I'd like to meet someone who is passionate in both life and love, patient, caring, knows how to communicate completely with her partner, is intelligent and likes to be spontaneous at times.

Generally someone with a positive outlook on life who likes to laugh and be silly at times, but who knows who she is and at least has an idea of where she'd like to be going. There is much more to me and what I'm looking for than this. However, for now, that's all I can muster.

If any of this sounds interesting, drop me a line and say hi. I hope to meet some new people, and have a nice time. Everyone can use one of those, so what do we have to lose by trying something new? Why else are we on here right? :-) Talk to you soon.
What I’m doing with my life
Currently, I am a freelance journalist and writer, and fill in the gaps with bartending. I always have several projects up in the air, and it gives me a certain freedom that I have found to be very important. I would ultimately like to work for an international aid agency, directly creating change in the world around me. There's a bunch more, but I'm ready for the next box. Besides...a bit of conversation fodder is always good right?
I’m really good at
Communicating intellectually, verbally, emotionally and physically, and quite a bit more too boot.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Wow...I have a profound love for a broad range of music and always looking for something new. The same goes for literature and food. That said...nothing beats good conversation over great Thai, Sushi, Italian or Mexican food. Be in touch. We can talk about the specifics
The six things I could never do without
Humor, laptop (or pen and paper), good food, tasty libations, cozy bed, great conversation.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Why the hell I have to fill out so many boxes on a dating site, when we are all so close to one another. Also, why great people don't seem to just bump into eachother like they used to.
On a typical Friday night I am
Lately...working. Otherwise I am typically out and about with friends. It really depends on how the week went, who is available to spend time with and the nature of my relationship with those folks.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
Ask me a question and I'll give you an answer. Too many morsels to pick just one. ;-)
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 28–46
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
You like what you've seen and read, and would like to have a great time...or conversation.