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32 Oakland, CA Man


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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 23–37
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Online now!
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5' 9" (1.75m)
Body Type
Doesn’t have kids
Has dogs
English (Somewhat), Spanish (Fluently)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
A decent, aesthetically-minded, hard working dude with nerdy tendencies, an affinity for flannel and denim and dogs named after food.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I spend a lot of time walking and running with my dog all over the streets, trails, and beaches of the bay area. I get out for a good bite to eat and a decent drink whenever I can.

I'm a newly badged firefighter which means I now have a buzz cut, am always tired and sore, and have negative free time.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Nearly killing myself with caffeine, giving compliments, tying a bowline, always having nicks and cuts on my fingers.
The first things people usually notice about me
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That I look like Anthony Michael Hall, Macklemore, or some other lame white celebrity.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Suttree, pulp westerns, A Thousand Plateaus, Please Kill Me, Trout Fishing in America, Italo Calvino. I'm trying to do a better job of branching out from white American male authors and lofty French theorists.

On Any Sunday, California Split, The Killing of a Chinese Bookie, Ratcatcher.

the subsonics, milk music, amen dunes, SPOOKY BLACK, White Fence, CRIME, Bill Callahan, Iceage, Abner Jay, Ex-Cult, The Jesus and Mary Chain, Neil Young, The Men, Chet Baker, DEVO, Three6Mafia, Townes Van Zandt.

SORBET!!! banh mi, kumquats, Neopolitan pizza, goat cheese, ginger tea, meatballs, yakitori, tamales, avocado, cilantro, oysters, cheeseburgers all day, fried plantains, spaghetti carbonara, tacos de al pastor, pozole.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
warm sun, blue jeans, my mutt, the sea, the pines.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Waves, trails, peaks.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Could be i'm working, or having a beer, or out of town. Lately, it's been a stack of records, a book, and a few cold ones.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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My workplace nickname is "cabana boy".

Update: now it's "robocop". :(
You should message me if
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You like getting outside, you're more Buzzcocks than Beatles, you've been arrested before, you own a sailboat, you have lots of patience, you want to ride bikes and drink tall cans and then go to a nice dinner.