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I’m looking for

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  • Ages 26–42
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Sep 9
6′ 1″ (1.85m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Graduated from university
Rather not say
Strictly monogamous
Has kids, but doesn’t want more
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
About Me
Hello and thank you for reading... I'm a genuine, honest, caring, compassionate, outgoing, adventurous, hard working, spontaneous, committed guy with a good size personality that's looking for someone very special to share adventures with. I'm not in a hurry, but... I am looking for someone that's interested in a relationship and definitely NOT someone that's addicted to serial dating. Also know, I have two amazing boys age 8 and 11 that mean the world to me. I feel fortunate to have lots of energy and love sitting in reserve for that special someone.

I try and maintain a reasonable healthy diet, exercise consistently and a pass down of good genetics, thanks dad :)

If you think we are a match, send me a message. WAIT.... before messaging me, PLEASE read what I'm looking for below, if we are not a match, I probably wont respond, not to be mean but I want to respect your time.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I work hard at my job, because I enjoy it. I play with my kids because I love them, I workout because it makes me feel good.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Some people would say I'm pretty good at Salsa dancing (I was an instructor), also ballroom 2 step and several other forms of dance. I'm exceptional at my job. One, because I love it, and second, because I'm good at it. Most people say loving your job comes first, being great at it is second, but I'm not sure that's true. Hard work and discipline makes you great and once your great, it becomes lots of fun. My view .02 :)
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
I like to say I can adapt to almost anything. One things I absolutely can't do without would be respect and trust. I believe this is mutually important in a relationship.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
My mind is all over the place. Mostly I think about...
1. my kids (two boys 8 and 11).
2. My work and career path advancement
3. Health and Fitness
4. Dancing
5. My Faith
You should message me if
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About You

1. A lady who takes care of her physical self by eating reasonably healthy (responsibly). Not to worry, I also enjoy a good slice of pizza or some rocky road ice cream, yum, but by no means would that ever be a regular diet, they are treats.

Also someone that embraces some sort of regular activity like dancing, swimming, working out, hiking, sports, etc. This is important, I'm not asking for a fitness model so please don't take this out of context, I'm just NOT looking for a lethargic person, you know who you are :)

2. A fabulous smile and a gentle disposition. Yes, everyone has a bad day, but life is to short for repetitive bad days, just smile it's good medicine.

3. CHEMISTRY - When you look your worst, I want you; when we wake up, I want you; after a hard stressful day at the office, I want you. We need to have a mutual chemistry where we can't wait to be in each others arms.

3. PERSONALITY: A woman that thinks and feels sexy. A woman that has a gentle disposition! Yes, I already said that a couple bullets back but it's that important, smile smile smile smile, did I mention smile? Someone who manages conflict in a 'constructive' manner. An intelligent woman that can carry a conversation and communicate thoughts, ideas, and personal beliefs, about various topics. A Woman that has learned to truly VALUE a GOOD man!

4. COMMON INTERESTS: I think it's important to share common interest with each other. Sharing your passion for something with the one you LOVE is magical.

5. TIMING - Are you ready for something real?