Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I will just be as open and honest as I can.
I am a good guy who tries to do the right thing. I am not always
all that motivated, I am not always self assured, and I don't
always follow my own personal beliefs. But I try, I I am devoted,
and I really care about things, even if I don't show it. Sometimes
I find it hard to create deep roots in something, and it has
prevented me from having as many good friends as I could have, and
finding a church home. It is something I am aware of and working
I am a linux using, sci-fi/anime watching, car loving, video game
playing guy who is looking for somebody who can share my passions
as well as keep me in check.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I am trying to figure out where I belong. I spent a decade in
California and almost 15 years working as a computer guy in the
entertainment industry and have recently changed locations and
careers. I now live on the opposite coast, working in a different
sector, but now live close to my family. I am trying to find ways
to better myself so I can be a better friend and family member.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
I am a tech guy. I can google answers and debug problems with the
best of them. I love problem solving. Technology, that I can figure
out. It follows rules and logic. People, I am still trying to
figure that out.
The first things people usually notice about me
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My stature. I am a big guy and I can come off intimidating, but
they will quickly see my shy, sly smile and know that I am just a
big teddy bear.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
For movies, I love anything from indie to action to romantic
comedies to animated (huge fan, spent 13 years working in that
industry). As long as its not gore or shock horror, I am usually
good with it.
Books: Anything by JRR Tolkien
, CS Lewis
, David Eddings, Terry Brooks,
Orson Scott Card
I am reading through CS Lewis
's classics right now, having
just finished The Great Divorce
particularly love Mere Christianity
TV Shows: Monk
, How I Met Your Mother
, Burn Notice
, Robot Chicken
, Big Bang Theory
Dead Like Me
I have just binge watched several shows and series, almost too many
to list. Right now, my TV viewing has been almost all streaming
anime from crunchyroll.
I believe that Cat
's album The Greatest
may be the most aptly
named album since The Beatles
' White Album
(and one of the best
, Brothers Martin
, Starflyer 59
Pop/Indie: She and
, Tegan And Sara
, Kate Nash
, Lilly Allen
, Regina Spektor
, KT Tunstall
, The Wrong
, Camera Obscura
, Janis Joplin
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
I could list abstract ideas like family
... but they aren't really physical
things, so I will go with actual things:
one of my cars
and finally, I guess my cats, although they act like they could do
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Not a whole lot. I try to leave work at work, so when I am at home,
its whatever distractions I have to keep me from feeling lonely or
trying to figure out why I am still single.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Home. It used to be finishing up at work. At least now, saying home
sounds a lot better. I am in my recliner, watching tv or playing
games. I am not opposed to doing things on Friday (or any night), I
am almost always game to do something, its just I don't initiate
activities with others very well.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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Having always been a nice respectable boy, a girl's mother tended
to love me more than they did.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You are somewhat attractive, active and are looking somebody who
cares and are looking for a friend and good conversation. It
doesn't just have to be about a potential match, friends are
important too. But I can't date somebody I wouldn't see myself
becoming good friends with.
I tend to keep myself pretty guarded, and I don't always respond,
because I don't know how to say I'm not interested without feeling
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