I value the idea of having standards and standing by your word, even when doing so becomes inconvenient. I am ruthlessly analytical, brutally rational, and irreverently humorous. I am a bit asocial by nature, but people have a hard time picking up on it. Every now and then I'll say something that really throws people off. But, I’ve learned to be more refined. I enjoy a very strong intimacy with my family and friends, a fun and productive relationship with my co-workers, and generally find superficial acquaintanceships not fulfilling. Women often tell me I have a refreshing balance of masculine and feminine qualities.
My hobbies are pretty varied and oscillate between that of hippies and yuppies (eg sitting barefoot in a park, hiking, going to a museum or the symphony...). A good dancing (not grinding) night will really raise my mood for the week. My latest endeavor is photography and I love to creep on people in public. I like exploring new places, watching sunsets, listening to music, laying in bed, cuddling.
To me, confidence and self-respect are the most attractive qualities. Physical chemistry, affection, and intimacy are very important. Intellectual stimulation is a must. Eventually I want to be in a serious relationship again; in the meantime I would like to meet new people and share some fun experiences. I am totally down to meet up just for fun without any romantic or sexual expectations.