I am a married white Irish American guy. I am happily married but have been exploring the kink lifestyle the past few months.

I cant post a pic but I am average looking, on the heavy side, blue eyes, brown hair, and want to serve and or be trained. or help you have fun!

I have made some significant (for me) ventures into the kink world recently having gone to my first munch just a few weeks ago and to an awesome Power exchange afterwards. (I went again the next night too..I loved it so much).
I am very open and honest but need this part of my life to be private since I am married. I want to watch but not play.

I would love to have a guy to chat with and maybe be my mentor.
I would like the idea of being submissive and obeying a guy, hetero or gay. or submissive to a younger couple. I also like voyeurisn and love watching others do kinky things and having sex: gay and hetero.

I love watching gay sex and hetero sex. I would love to be in a room …scene....your bedroom...whatever...maybe handcuffed while people around me are horney as hell and I get to watch and say nothing.

I like the idea maybe of buying gifts for my master or master and mistress (bosses). I just want to watch for now.
Will you meet me or chat with me and train me to be a good observer and maybe let me learn more from you?

I am kinky, smart, and loyal

I am a white married guy - well educated professional in a techie area
bachelors and masters
fairly religious but have a hidden kinky side

have done nothing to little but observe so far

want to learn and be taught
like th idea of being tied up by someone i can trust

MUST BE very discrete

making friends
being open and honest
good listener
thought provoking conversation
open and inclusive
non judgemental
give people benefit of the doubt

volunteering and helping others

being in a room with kinky people having a kinky game or kinky sex

gay or hetero

being submissive

serving someones needs
touching someone and pleasing them

I have some kinky desires with couples: younger hetero, gay men or man, and maybe multiple couples.

I think I'd like to be submissive.

If you can teach me stuff. If you need a frined. If you can be my friend. I need some kinky frineds.
If you can chat with me on yahoo IM.

If you can use a guy who would enjoy your company while you do kinky things with your partner. I would love to watch. and be told what I can and can't do.
If you would like me to buy you some reasonable priced gifts as your voyeur/ slave/ clean up boy....
if you need a submissive guy who is professional and conservative in everyday like.

If you think you can make me kinkier.
If you think you can tease me and satify one of my fetishes on our first meeting.