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tom2mato

61 / M / Gay / Single

San Francisco, California

His Details

Last Online
Today – 7:41pm
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 9″ (1.75m).
Body Type
Fit
Diet
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Sign
Libra but it doesn’t matter
Education
Graduated from masters program
Job
Executive / Management
Income
Offspring
Pets
Speaks
English (Fluently)

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My self-summary
Upbeat, regular guy, friendly and warm hearted, with a good sense of humor. What else? Hmmm…well, when I ask my friends how they would describe me, I most often hear stuff like: approachable, gentle, witty, good listener, down-to-earth, creative, musical, charming, relaxed, self confident, optimistic, mature, witty, wise, intelligent, humorous, sensitive, responsive, responsible, loving, sensual, fun, playful, affectionate, mellow, comfortable in my own skin, honest, authentic, unpretentious.

OK, what else? Love theater and plays, and currently country western dancing has been a blast. Music is a life long passion of mine, especially jazz and rhythm and blues. I'm intrigued with insight into human nature, and personal growth. I enjoy engaging conversation. I'm at the gym or swimming pool quite a bit, and enjoy working out. I started-up and run a small design engineering practice. I like movies, live music, stand up comedy, hangin’ out and talking and laughing.
What I’m doing with my life
A ton of stuff. Just got back from a trip to Spain and a cruise of the Mediterranean.
I’m really good at
I am a very empathetic listener. I listen with presence.
The first things people usually notice about me
My warm approachable smile, my calves, and my salt and pepper hair.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Books: In Defense Of Food, I mostly do a lot of on-line short article reading

Movies: A Beautiful Mind, Pee-Wee's Big Adventure, Fargo

TV: Six Feet Under, Charlie Rose, The Daily Show

Music: Jazz, Miles Davis, Nancy Wilson, Kurt Elling, Tony Bennett, Amy Winehouse, Lady Gaga. I like most all music from Miles Davis to Lady Gaga and everything in between.

Food: I like to cook, I'm eat healthy food, I'm interested in nutrition, Thai, Sushi, any food prepared well, especially home cooking

Restaurants: Firewood, Basil
The six things I could never do without
A great cup of morning coffee
Jazz music
My friends
Humor and laughter, especially the laughter of my friends
Love
I spend a lot of time thinking about
I'm intrigued with insight into human nature, and personal growth. Spend a lot of time thinking about that stuff. My next gig.
On a typical Friday night I am
As long as it includes my friends and some laughter, I'm good to go.
I’m looking for
  • Guys who like guys
  • Ages 40–65
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, activity partners
You should message me if
If dating or friendship with me looks like an option for you. Go ahead, click back. :)