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tom2mato

63 M San Francisco, CA

I’m looking for

  • Men who like men
  • Ages 40–65
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Online now!
Orientation
Gay
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 9″ (1.75m)
Body Type
Fit
Diet
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Sign
Libra, but it doesn’t matter
Education
Graduated from masters program
Job
Management
Income
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids
Pets
Speaks
English (Fluently)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I'm a regular guy, friendly and warm hearted, with a good sense of humor, and usually pretty laid-back. Upbeat and optimistic most of the time, but hey, I have my moments.

Enjoy movies, theater and plays, museums and art openings, stand-up comedy and improv, live vocal and instrumental music at small venues, and two-step country western dancing. I like engaging conversation, and always up for hanging out, talking, laughing and spending time with friends. Music is a life long passion of mine, especially jazz. I'm at the gym or swimming pool quite a bit, and enjoy working out, and often take long mid-day walks in the City.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I'm going through a bit of a life renaissance right now. Winding down both a thirty year career and a twenty year business that I created. Re-examining where I've been, sifting, sorting, letting go of stuff I don't need, and updating my relationships with family, friends and especially myself. I'm creating a new path for myself for the future, working toward being someone new, and excited about exploring what's next for me in life.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
I'm a people person. I listen empathetically with presence.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
My approachability, especially my smile. People usually warm up to me easily. Often get comments on my salt and pepper hair.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Books: Rarely read fiction. I listen to a lot of audiobooks. Psycho-spiritual self-development reading.
In Defense Of Food, Hardwiring Happiness,

Movies: Avid movie viewer, especially movies with a good story, good acting and well developed characters.
A Beautiful Mind, Pee-Wee's Big Adventure, Fargo

TV: Mostly record shows to watch for downtime. PBS is my friend: NOVA, Frontline, Charlie Rose. HBO specials. Series: Six Feet Under, Charlie Rose, The Daily Show

Music: Jazz, Miles Davis, Nancy Wilson, Kurt Elling, Tony Bennett, Amy Winehouse, Lady Gaga. I like most all music from Miles Davis to Lady Gaga and everything in between, and yes, I do like Country Western music, too. ;)

Food: I cook simple dishes, I'm eat healthy food, and interested in nutrition, Thai, Sushi, any food prepared well, especially home cooking

Restaurants: Like to explore new restaurants and different cuisine.
Firewood, Basil

Shows: Live theater and Musicals, Stand-up Comedy, Jazz Singers at small venues

Lectures: Like to hear interesting and topical speakers
Nourse Theater, Commonwealth Club
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
My good health and spirit
A great cup of morning coffee
Great songs with inspiring lyrics
Love and laughter of my friends
Learning, growing, creating, trying something new
Maybe you! Hey, why am I on here anyways?
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
I'm intrigued with insight into human nature, and personal growth. Spend a lot of time thinking about that stuff. My next vocal jazz gig.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Usually out at movie or show and dinner with a friend, or sometimes I go for a long City walk in early afternoon sun, then stretch at the gym and later get a massage.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
If you're open to making a connection, perhaps a conversation over coffee or a drink, having some fun, a date, making a friend particularly with mutual interests, or maybe a boyfriend if that develops. Say hello! :)