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tom_Q84

36 Berkeley, CA Man

Man

I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 24–37
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Today – 3:21pm
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
Asian
Height
5′ 8″ (1.73m)
Body Type
Fit
Diet
Strictly anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Other, but not too serious about it
Sign
Taurus, and it’s fun to think about
Education
Graduated from masters program
Job
Medicine
Income
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids, but wants them
Pets
Likes dogs and has cats
Speaks
English (Fluently), Chinese (Poorly)

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My self-summary
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"All souls dream, but not equally. In the dusty recesses of their minds they dream but wake to find it vanity. But the dreamers of the day are a dangerous lot. For they may act their dream with open eyes. To make it possible. This we did."

Tri-coastal, proud blasian, wisdom and knowledge junky, retired-activist, aspiring empire builder.

A homebody at heart that gets instantly itchy for the next party and night out.

I pay attention, listen, then speak.

I will rock your world with my insight and hilarity.

I know that life is perfect the way it is. AND it's constantly changing and transforming who we are and who we think we are going to be.

If you are into adventure, travel, and all-around awesomeness, hit me up.

I'm ready to meet my soul mate and partner in crime.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
After 8 years in the non-profit industrial complex, I've decided the world can be saved predominantly through dance parties and amazing sushi.

Actually, I learned the world doesn't need saving at all.

Now, I poke and prod people, sometimes set them on fire, and force them to drink nasty herbs. But everyone feels better after.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Nodding sagely, expounding on seemingly-absurdly-tangential theoretical perspectives on everything and anything, sarcastic NY humor and wit.

Appreciating movies, music and creativity, geeking out about random and quirky things, encouraging others, eating and drinking really well, 8-ball pool in bars, making tea, planning and implementing outrageous lifestyle scenarios, getting tickled pink.

Cooking yummy comfort food from my indigenous and adopted cultures (Taiwanese, Slovakian), acupressure massage, making friends and loved ones feel well-come, well-fed, and well-in-general.
The first things people usually notice about me
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How I simultaneously induce calm and excitement upon meeting.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
The best meal i've ever had was freshly caught tuna sashimi in Kauai, Hawaii. Japanese, Chinese, Italian, Indian, Mexican, Ethiopian, I can be very picky or not.

music: Cat Power, Radiohead, Bob Dylan, Neko Case, Lauryn Hill, Rilo Kiley, Rolling Stones, Nina Simone, Alicia Keys, Belle & Sebastian, Arcade Fire, Joy Division, Tribe Called Quest, Yeah Yeah Yeahs, and lots more.

Cinema: Movie slut. Definitely a child of Hollywood, and like things across the spectrum of low and high brow. Wong Kar Wai, Lee Ang, the Coen Brothers, Pedro Almodovar, and Charlie Kaufman are up there. Plus taiwanese filmmakers, Hou Hsiao Hsien, Edward Yang, etc.

Books: E. Annie Proulx (Brokeback Mountain, the Shipping News), Don Delillo (White Noise, Cosmopolis), Raymond Carver (What We Mean When We Talk About Love), Thomas Pynchon (the Crying of Lot 49), Elizabeth Gilbert (the Last American Man, Eat, Pray, Love), Hai Jin (Waiting), David Sedaris (Naked, Me Talk Pretty One Day), Zadie Smith (White Teeth), Jen Gish, Haruki Murakami (the Windup Bird Chronicle)
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
1. Community (family & friends)

2. Love (all the joy, heartbreak, melodrama, and frustration of your larger communities, in easy take-home size!)

3. to kill/die for food and drink (the only reason i might support totalitarianism would be to enforce strict standards against incompetently made food)

4. Stories, written, sung, cinematic or otherwise

5. Moving my body (booty-shakin, yoga, running, hiking)

6. Travel
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
How to live a life that improves and brings happiness to my family, community, self, and wider world.

How to balance the need for service and (in a buddhist way) detachment from worldly needs and enjoying life free- and whole-heartedly.

Basically, I want to achieve transcendence, but in a highly profitable setting.

I also want to be less sarcastic ...
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Stirring up trouble.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I have a soft spot for cats and can't help but spoil all varieties of warm, adorable creatures. (maybe you can be one of them ...)
You should message me if
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You sometimes take yourself way too seriously and realize that you really shouldn't.

You really care about something, hopefully a lot of things, like, say ... other people around you, society, great art, health, you know, all the popular things to care about.

You appreciate where you came from.

You're an unrepentant hedonist.

You like to dream, chase, and CATCH big dreams.