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tomboylover

33 M Oswego, IL

My Details

Last Online
Online now!
Orientation
Bisexual
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 11″ (1.80m)
Body Type
Athletic
Diet
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Other
Sign
Education
Graduated from masters program
Job
Science / Engineering
Income
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Pets
Speaks
English

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My self-summary
I'm a genderqueer curious guy, a mad scientist, and a philanthropist all in one. I have medium length blond hair with big blue eyes. I'm 6', healthy, well educated, and like science. I’m somewhere in the middle on the gender spectrum, not too masculine or feminine, kind of a genderqueer boy. I like people and am often described as analytical and very curious. I respect people, I'm usually calm & easy going. I'm optimistic, idealistic, pragmatic, very intelligent, creative, pansexual, empathetic, sensitive, open minded, a good listener, polyamorous, easy to get along with, have compersion, am romantic, sensual, versatile, and have a weird sense of humor. I like to make people smile and laugh. My witty jokes may leave something to be desired. I am a good negotiator and prefer peace to war; although, I can defend and stick up for myself & others when necessary. I'm fun, and exciting.
What I’m doing with my life
This trying to fit in a hostile world, find frinnds, and enjoy life.

I'm a Chemical Engineer.
I’m really good at
1) science
2) engineering
3) creativity and thinking outside the box
4) understanding and liking people
5) Social/interpersonal skills
6) storytelling
The first things people usually notice about me
1) intelligent
2) friendly
3) genderqueer unique
4) blue eyes
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
I like to read sciece fiction books, short stories, Science News magazine, and literature about genderqueer and transgender issues.

I love alternative music, pop, techno, goth, Despatch mode, Mozart, Bjork, Brittney Spears, Indego Girls, Tori Amos, and Lady Ga Ga. le tigre. the violent femmes

I like the Big Bang Theory, science fiction, Star Trek, Dr Who, The Tattooed Girl, Boys Don't Cry, The Crying Game, Dead Poet Society, Pulp Fiction, Fried Green Tomatoes, Silence of the Lambs, Billy Elliot, Basic Instinct, Better than Chocolate, and Bound.

Food: fish, mexican, Chinese, and pizza
The six things I could never do without
1) internet
2) science
3) movies
4) dancing
5) travel
6) friends and friends-with-benefits
I spend a lot of time thinking about
1) friends
2) genderqueer / androgyny
3) science,
4) inventions
5) politics
On a typical Friday night I am
At a nigtlub dancing, on the internet, checking out a college or universty, or seeing a movie.
I’m looking for
  • Guys and girls who like bi guys
  • Ages 21–33
  • Located anywhere
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex
You should message me if
I’m bisexual. You should be intelligent & openminded. I would like a girl or boy that can sometimes fit in as just one o the guys, maybe sometimes feels like a misfit, a rebel, and who thinks outside of the normal boxes. I would like a girl / guy that is different, unique, intelligent, unusual and special.

I prefer girls that have some genderqueer tomboy characteristics, but also have a feminine side as well. Yes, I like girls that like to do some things that boys often like to do. Maybe we can do them together. It is a plus if you have a short boy haircut and do not use make-up. I also like tomboys, genderqueers, agenders, drag kings, boyish girls, gender benders, crossdressers, androgynous girls, soft butches, female to male transgenders (FTMs), general misfits, goth girls, feminists, nurds, liberals, and feminine girly girls as well.

I’m also attracted to emo boys, femboys, genderqueer boys, drag queens, top boys, nurds, male to female transgenders (MTFs), and goth boys. I prefer clean shaven androgynous younger guys.

Other pluses include: open minded, gender fluid, respect others, huggable, like to cuddle, sensual, bisexual, pansexual, genderfluid, sex-positive, space cadet, nurdy, feminist, creative, artistic, smart, and independent. You do not need to have all of the desired characteristics for me to like you. Love is too complicated for generalities. I am looking for a special girl / boy that is intelligent, healthy, independent, can think for herself / himself, has a personality that is not too feminine or masculine, and is unique.

You're a really cool person and you could use some new friends!

Or just message me because you find me interesting.