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tomecide

25 M Washington, DC

I’m looking for

  • Men who like men
  • Ages 21–35
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 2:42pm
Orientation
Gay
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 9″ (1.75m)
Body Type
Fit
Diet
Vegetarian
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Agnosticism
Sign
Scorpio, but it doesn’t matter
Education
Working on Ph.D program
Job
Education
Income
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids
Pets
Likes dogs and likes cats
Speaks
English (Fluently), Sign Language (Okay), French (Poorly), Latin (Fluently)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I still show up for gentleman's practice in the company of lead dancers, hoping their grace will get stuck in my shoes.

I’m the guy who gets up early in the morning to go running because I enjoy being the loudest thing on the street. I spent time reading and writing rather than learning to properly swing a baseball bat, but if you kick a ball my way I can not embarrass myself on the field.

Culture junkie, news addict, and music aficionado, I enjoy listening to NPR and reading the paper.

I'm a guy who talks to my brothers almost every day, just because we enjoy sharing laughs and clowning around with each other, and can honestly say that my parents are friends. My friends, in turn, I treat like family.

I’ve fallen asleep with highlighters in hand and ruined my sheets. I drink a cup of coffee almost every morning, not because I am dependent on the caffeine, but because I love the smell. I read books in threes: a classic work of literature, an old favorite, and a work of non-fiction.

I can’t imagine a life without academia or art, simply working a 9-5 and crunching numbers. I am the sort of person who color-codes my notes, eats granola and fruit for breakfast, and always orders the same coffee - but I’ll try most anything once.

Spontaneity adored, consideration appreciated.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Pursuing my doctorate and teaching here in DC. My research in on the intersection of performance and disability in pop culture.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
A surprising collection of things. From basketball lay-ups and baking to stitching wounds or singing opera, I think it's important to cultivate an eclectic set of life skills.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Usually my glasses.

Folks ask me all the time if my specs are prescription—apparently some people wear non-corrective glasses just for the fashion statement? I'm still trying to figure out if I'm 18 years ahead or behind the style curve, not that it matters much.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Isn't this the question you ask over a drink? We'll debate my choices then.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
1. Good company.
2. Running and yoga.
3. A cup of coffee and thoughtful conversation (/a good pun).
4. My planner; wristwatch.
5. The news/NPR/BBC4.
6. Music.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
What I'm making for supper. I love being in a kitchen and creating new dishes.

Also, what academics and literary theorists will do 200-300 years from now, when there's little-to-no paper trail to follow while studying the great minds of our age.

[Okay, so admittedly not "a lot of time," but a comparatively decent amount. It's an occupational hazard of someone in academia who spends his time examining original foul papers. I much prefer taking notes, keeping a calendar, and writing longhand.]
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Going for a long run. Having a drink with my roommates. Cooking a meal. Winning at Scrabble. Losing terribly at Risk. At the theater, an art gallery, an evening lecture, a sports match.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I keep post-it notes in random places to remind myself to do (or avoid) things.
You should message me if
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You enjoy solid conversation, good coffee, art and variety of musical styles, have an opinion on the Oxford comma, like to run/ stay active, debate politics and pop culture, or cooking.

You think that romance isn't something that is delightfully quaint or old-fashioned, and that chivalry isn't dead.