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tomk1968

50 M Des Plaines, IL

I’m looking for

  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 38–58
  • Near me
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Online now!
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 10″ (1.78m)
Body Type
Average
Diet
Smokes
No
Drinks
Rarely
Drugs
Never
Religion
Agnosticism, and somewhat serious about it
Sign
Aquarius, and it’s fun to think about
Education
Graduated from masters program
Job
Education
Income
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Offspring
Pets
Speaks
English

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My self-summary
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Currently embarking on a new phase of my life and contemplating the various "forks in the road" that got me here. I studied to be an English teacher and yet, somehow, I've ended up working in Special Ed. It's still fairly early in the game but I seem to have an aptitude for it. Is this where my future lies? Stay tuned...

But aside from that...

My nieces and nephews are another very important part of my life. Spending time with them rewards me on many levels (and allows the "kid in me" to occasionally run wild and free!). I mean, without them I'd never be able to run through sprinklers and throw water balloons.

By the way, before we go any further, I should also mention that I have a lifelong weakness for a well turned phrase (not necessarily a bad thing as I embark on my second career as a high school teacher) and have the possibly delusional belief that anything that happens in life, good, bad or somewhere in between, can be the raw stuff of art. I like to write and so I think that it's only fair to warn you that I can't promise that any conversation or confidence won't be used as grist for the mill (with names changed to protect the guilty, of course).

And speaking of "good, bad or somewhere in between" is my love for the Cubs which, these days is starting to feel more and more like a hereditary affliction. I DO have hopes that someday a cure might be discovered. Thank God I have the Blackhawks to remind me that sports isn't always about disappointment. Yeah, I have to admit that rooting for a winner can be kind of addicting...
What I’m doing with my life
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Getting ready to start my first year as a full time Special Ed. teacher...
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Making it seem like I know more than I really do.
The first things people usually notice about me
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The intoxicating scent of Axe Body Wash.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Favorite books include anything by John Steinbeck, John Irving, Henry Miller or Theodore Dreiser. Also "A Farewell To Arms" by Hemingway, "Fear Of Flying' by Erica Jong, "Babbit" by Sinclair Lewis, "High Fidelity" by Nick Hornby, "The Razor's Edge", by Maugham.
Also "Persepolis" by Marjane Satrapi and ANYTHING that Harvey Pekar (R.I.P.) or Anton Chekhov put their names on.

My fav book of the last couple of years would probably be "The Book Thief" by Markus Zusak and was completely blown away by it. I actually started reading it to start refamiliarizing myself with adolescent literature and wasn't ready for just how engrossing (and beautifully written) it is.

TV; favorite shows include "Arrested Development", "Curb Your Enthusiasm", "Monty Python's Flying Circus", "Life On Mars" (British version only) "The Venture Brothers" (a cartoon satire with the scope of a Russian novel) and my current obsession, "Sherlock" (why is it that BBC shows always seem so much smarter than US ones?)

Films; ANYTHING by John Cassavetes, "Joe Versus the Volcano", "The Big Lebowski", "The World According To Garp", "Bull Durham", "Before Sunrise", "Before Sunset", "Waking Life", "The Great Escape", "A Hard Day's Night", "Singing in the Rain", "The Stunt Man", "Eyes Wide Shut", "Local Hero", "Half Nelson", "Brazil", "Monty Python's The Meaning of Life", "Rear Window", "It's A Wonderful Life", "American Splendor", "Harry and Tonto", "Withnail and I", "The Private Life of Sherlock Holmes" and many others.

Music; Classical, Blues, Jazz, Classic Rock...The BEATLES are a particular passion which comes perilously lose to full on geekdom.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
My nieces and nephews,
Running
The Blackhawks and Cubs
my computer,
wise ass repartee
my library card
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
What to write on profiles like this. I definitely need to get out more...
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Out for dinner and/or a movie or sporting event with friends or spending time with my family
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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LOL-the price of that kind of admission is direct contact...
You should message me if
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you're intrigued enough to take a leap...