I'm an LA native with an affection for technology and a contemplative soul. I have an absolutely stubborn optimism...which trust me is not always a good thing ;-) I find it hard to make time to cook since I get so busy, which I don't find as tragic as you might since I love going out to local restaurants. It took me years to realize you can be angry and in love with someone at the same time (and how healthy it can be). I escaped some pretty extreme poverty to achieve some of my biggest dreams, and I have a lot of pride around that. I daydream often about moving to a huge loft on the 20th floor of some high rise. Then I realize perhaps my money is better spent on other things? Ooooooh like a fancy loft living space...you see my problem?
I lean feminine and submissive, and am open to all kinds of partner(s). While I connect best with other queer persons (and bonus points if you are), this is not a requirement. However you have to be willing to accept me for me (you deserve the same), and there has to be some chemistry there for us to play with. I do well with tomboys and other queer people looking for the feminine lean in a partner. I have been in both poly and monogamous relationships, and find rather than exclusively hold onto one relationship style it is better to chose the boundaries once you meet a partner.
Edit: Username was previously tomlin1, this suits me better.