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tomlr75

39 M New York, NY

I’m looking for

  • Men who like men
  • Ages 26–40
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Online now!
Orientation
Gay
Ethnicity
White
Height
6′ 2″ (1.88m)
Body Type
Athletic
Diet
Mostly anything
Smokes
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Agnosticism
Sign
Aries, and it’s fun to think about
Education
Graduated from university
Job
Art / Music / Writing
Income
$80,000–$100,000
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Offspring
Pets
Likes dogs and likes cats
Speaks
English (Fluently), Spanish (Poorly)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I have a quick, dry sense of humor. I love to make other people laugh. I am a big foodie, and cook more than i dine out.
If I could live anywhere else it would be Paris or somewhere in the mountains.
I enjoy anything with pumpkin or blueberry as an ingredient. I read NY Magazine from back to front and mainly subscribe for the crossword and the approval matrix. I hate doing laundry but like washing dishes. I'm scared of birds and too many of anything (imagine being in a room of 1000 puppies). I want to find someone to go bike riding with me on Governor's Island.

I am sort of a morning person but not always by choice as I always wake up at 7am.
I am a jeans and a hoodie guy but do love getting dressed up for a fancy party now and then, who can refuse a fancy party?
I went to school for art, decided I wanted to be chef and ended up stage managing.

I'm looking for someone who likes high brow humor mixed in with a potty joke now and then.

I am funny, tall, and a good cook
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I am currently happily employed as a Stage Manager
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Cooking, Drawing, making people laugh,being aware of time, Monday through Thursday Crosswords, drinking coffee, Pedestrian speed walking and I may have won guacamole and cookie contests but that is at work.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
My eyes? My cheshire cat grin?
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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NPR and various podcasts: Bill Maher, Radiolab, TAL, Wait Wait...
Books: Let the Great World Spin, And Then We Came to the End, Perks of Being a Wallflower, A Confederacy of Dunces, Geek Love, Kavalier and Clay, Zeitoun, Y the Last Man, Sarah Vowell, Linda Barry, David Sedaris, The Sandman, THe Hunger Games, Runaways.
TV Shows:True Blood, Mad Men, V, 30 Rock, Project Runway, Buffy, Top Chef, Arrested Development, The Office (BBC), Alias, Lost, Gilmore Girls, Veronia Mars
Movies: Where the Wild Things Are, Olivier Olivier, (500) Days of Summer, Better off Dead, Man on Wire, Tri Colors Trilogy, Hands on a Hard Body, Star Wars, Clue, Silence of the Lambs, Up, The Orphanage
Music: Tegan and Sara, the Lone Bellow,
Sharon Jones, Cat Power, Zee Avi, Feist, Josh Ritter, Belly,Avett Brothers, Michael Giacchino, Ben Kweller, Paolo Nutini, The Lumineers, Swell Season, Arcade Fire, She & Him, M. Ward, The shins, Fiona Apple, Johnny Cash, Damien Rice, New Pornographers, The Black Keys, Fleet Foxes, INXS
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Blueberries
Maybe Woodford Reserve or Willet.
My Monday yoga class
Tina Fey
Coffee
Mast brothers chocolate.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
words with friends
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Working, thinking about the string cheese I will eat after work.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I have some friends who always bring Crumbs cupcakes to dinner parties, poy lucks etc and I pretend to like them but I really hate them. They are the Mitt Romney of cupcakes.
You should message me if
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you want to.