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tommy0579

35 Salt Lake City, UT Man

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I’m looking for

  • Men who like men
  • Ages 20–50
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Today – 8:42am
Orientation
Gay
Ethnicity
White
Height
6′ 0″ (1.83m)
Body Type
A little extra
Diet
Mostly anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Rarely
Drugs
Never
Religion
Agnosticism, and somewhat serious about it
Sign
Taurus, and it’s fun to think about
Education
Working on masters program
Job
Management
Income
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids
Pets
Likes dogs and likes cats
Speaks
English (Fluently), Spanish (Fluently)

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My self-summary
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Let's see... I'm 35, independent, middle class, and have been told that I'm very 'midwest.' In general, I make up my own damned mind about things and am somewhat outspoken. I hate people that think they are better than everyone else. I think patience is a virtue. If you take more than an hour to get ready to go to Wal-mart then we'll probably have issues. Also, if you pay any attention to it, I'm an INTJ.
What I’m doing with my life
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Moved to SLC a few of years ago from Phoenix and really like it here. I've adjusted to the weather and although I don't like driving in the snow, I love it when you have no where to go and it snows and you can just sit back and watch.

I feel like I'm at a good place in my life and although I'm happy I often wonder if there isn't someone out there that can bring something more to my life and me to theirs. I'd like to be more active and step outside my comfort zone more and the easiest way to do that is with someone else and that's where you come in!
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Um, let's see... well I am good at Math. I am good at fixing things. I can change a tire in about ten minutes. I'm good at understanding how things work and analyzing systems and discovering patterns. I'm good at listening. I'm good at offering advice to my friends. I usually try to leave things a little better than I found them and I'm good at that. I'm good at managing people. I'm good at making people laugh. I'm good at acting like a clown when I need to. :) (proverbial, not literal)
The first things people usually notice about me
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I'm pretty gregarious in social situations usually- especially with people I know. I'm told I'm very confident (never underestimate the ability to fake it!) I usually have foot in mouth syndrome because I don't always say the most 'pc' thing in situations although I always strive for the truth. Oh, and there's not really any off limit subjects with me. I enjoy discussing pretty much anything and everything. Fun (and possibly dangerous) things to discuss are of course the big three: sex, politics, and religion. :) I'm ambitious, optimistic, genuine, loyal, and always try to be there when people need me. I have several close friends, and have kept up friendships with them for many years. I hate drama.

I'm am independent person. I am able to take care of stuff myself when it comes to my personal life. . I'm not into the 'scene' at all. Although I'm fashionably conscious, I'm more concerned with not looking like a slob when I leave the house than if I have the appropriate brand names on to satisfy people. As I said, I'm pretty "midwest' and I guess as I've aged my values have started to circle back to that.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Favorite book series of all time is Dune. I have Audible and listen to books a lot while I'm doing things or at the gym. It's usually a mix of fiction and non-fiction depending on what I'm feeling.
I don't watch much tv anymore. I felt like I was wasting tons of time that could be put to better uses so I don't see much anymore. If there's a hot new show out- odds are I haven't seen it. Do try to see any movies that are interesting and I like to see them in the theater.

I try to watch what I eat pretty carefully. I have done strictly vegetarian and juicing for three months but now I try to just stick to mostly natural foods. I go out to eat for lunch almost every day and usually cook dinner at home. I will say that after years of working in restaurant and multiple food safety trainings, I don't eat Sushi. No, it's not about that, it's simply a food safety thing. Please note, I don't begrudge anyone else's love of sushi and I will go there with you, but I'll be finding something cooked on the menu. ;)
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Wit, intelligent conversation, hope, goals, friends, and food. Material things aren't really that important to me any more. I used to care about them a lot, but then I realized I hated being broke all the time a lot more than I cared about what brand of widget I just bought. I'm very much a function over form kinda guy. Your life is what you make of it.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Why things are the way they are and then what I can do about them. The Universe. How things work. My life and what I'm doing with it. Questions that people ask me so I can find the answers. Problems that other people have so I can learn from their mistakes. My brain is usually always going... How the truth is sometimes subjective. Why people let their fears rule them. Whether I'd rather be lovingly forgotten or bitterly remembered... lol.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Doing dinner with friends or working around the house. I don't really do the 'scene' and one of my favorite things to do is just get together with friends. I don't really drink, smoke, or do mind altering substances- and trust me you don't want to see this try to dance. (Unless you want to teach me!) I have a roomie who has friends over and they drink and socialize so I spend time with them as well. I do like to tear up some karaoke once in a while. :)
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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Heck I don't know... I'm kind of private but I'll tell ya anything you want to know once I get to know ya. Just be prepared for the answer if you're going to ask the question. :)
You should message me if
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You don't take yourself or life too seriously (I mean no one gets out alive) and you try not to get hung up on things that don't really matter.
You like to live in a drama free zone.
Anything on my profile sparks your interest.
"Never Give Up, Never Surrender!" is your personal mantra.
Te interesa ser mi amigo (o mas.)
You can't think of a good reason not to...

You are NICE guy. (Do you finish last?) Seriously- if you are nice message me... People who are nice, considerate of other people, caring with regard to feelings, people who hold doors open for other people, help little old ladies cross the street, I mean you! You don't have to be nice all the time, but if you can be nice even when you don't have to, that really says something to me.

Okay you made it this far and haven't gone comatose (or did you) so ____ or get off the pot. :)