Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Let's see... I'm 35, independent, middle class, and have been told
that I'm very 'midwest.' In general, I make up my own damned mind
about things and am somewhat outspoken. I hate people that think
they are better than everyone else. I think patience is a virtue.
If you take more than an hour to get ready to go to Wal-mart then
we'll probably have issues. Also, if you pay any attention to it,
I'm an INTJ.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Moved to SLC a few of years ago from Phoenix and really like it
here. I've adjusted to the weather and although I don't like
driving in the snow, I love it when you have no where to go and it
snows and you can just sit back and watch.
I feel like I'm at a good place in my life and although I'm happy I
often wonder if there isn't someone out there that can bring
something more to my life and me to theirs. I'd like to be more
active and step outside my comfort zone more and the easiest way to
do that is with someone else and that's where you come in!
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Um, let's see... well I am good at Math. I am good at fixing
things. I can change a tire in about ten minutes. I'm good at
understanding how things work and analyzing systems and discovering
patterns. I'm good at listening. I'm good at offering advice to my
friends. I usually try to leave things a little better than I found
them and I'm good at that. I'm good at managing people. I'm good at
making people laugh. I'm good at acting like a clown when I need
to. :) (proverbial, not literal)
The first things people usually notice about me
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I'm pretty gregarious in social situations usually- especially with
people I know. I'm told I'm very confident (never underestimate the
ability to fake it!) I usually have foot in mouth syndrome because
I don't always say the most 'pc' thing in situations although I
always strive for the truth. Oh, and there's not really any off
limit subjects with me. I enjoy discussing pretty much anything and
everything. Fun (and possibly dangerous) things to discuss are of
course the big three: sex, politics, and religion. :) I'm
ambitious, optimistic, genuine, loyal, and always try to be there
when people need me. I have several close friends, and have kept up
friendships with them for many years. I hate drama.
I'm am independent person. I am able to take care of stuff myself
when it comes to my personal life. . I'm not into the 'scene' at
all. Although I'm fashionably conscious, I'm more concerned with
not looking like a slob when I leave the house than if I have the
appropriate brand names on to satisfy people. As I said, I'm pretty
"midwest' and I guess as I've aged my values have started to circle
back to that.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Favorite book series of all time is Dune. I have Audible and listen
to books a lot while I'm doing things or at the gym. It's usually a
mix of fiction and non-fiction depending on what I'm feeling.
I don't watch much tv anymore. I felt like I was wasting tons of
time that could be put to better uses so I don't see much anymore.
If there's a hot new show out- odds are I haven't seen it. Do try
to see any movies that are interesting and I like to see them in
I try to watch what I eat pretty carefully. I have done strictly
vegetarian and juicing for three months but now I try to just stick
to mostly natural foods. I go out to eat for lunch almost every day
and usually cook dinner at home. I will say that after years of
working in restaurant and multiple food safety trainings, I don't
eat Sushi. No, it's not about that, it's simply a food safety
thing. Please note, I don't begrudge anyone else's love of sushi
and I will go there with you, but I'll be finding something cooked
on the menu. ;)
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Wit, intelligent conversation, hope, goals, friends, and food.
Material things aren't really that important to me any more. I used
to care about them a lot, but then I realized I hated being broke
all the time a lot more than I cared about what brand of widget I
just bought. I'm very much a function over form kinda guy. Your
life is what you make of it.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Why things are the way they are and then what I can do about them.
The Universe. How things work. My life and what I'm doing with it.
Questions that people ask me so I can find the answers. Problems
that other people have so I can learn from their mistakes. My brain
is usually always going... How the truth is sometimes subjective.
Why people let their fears rule them. Whether I'd rather be
lovingly forgotten or bitterly remembered... lol.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Doing dinner with friends or working around the house. I don't
really do the 'scene' and one of my favorite things to do is just
get together with friends. I don't really drink, smoke, or do mind
altering substances- and trust me you don't want to see this try to
dance. (Unless you want to teach me!) I have a roomie who has
friends over and they drink and socialize so I spend time with them
as well. I do like to tear up some karaoke once in a while. :)
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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Heck I don't know... I'm kind of private but I'll tell ya anything
you want to know once I get to know ya. Just be prepared for the
answer if you're going to ask the question. :)
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You don't take yourself or life too seriously (I mean no one gets
out alive) and you try not to get hung up on things that don't
You like to live in a drama free zone.
Anything on my profile sparks your interest.
"Never Give Up, Never Surrender!" is your personal mantra.
Te interesa ser mi amigo (o mas.)
You can't think of a good reason not to...
You are NICE guy. (Do you finish last?) Seriously- if you are nice
message me... People who are nice, considerate of other people,
caring with regard to feelings, people who hold doors open for
other people, help little old ladies cross the street, I mean you!
You don't have to be nice all the time, but if you can be nice even
when you don't have to, that really says something to me.
Okay you made it this far and haven't gone comatose (or did you) so
____ or get off the pot. :)
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