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43 M East Syracuse, NY

I’m looking for

  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 34–48
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

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Yesterday – 1:43pm
5′ 9″ (1.75m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Virgo, but it doesn’t matter
Science / Engineering
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Might want kids

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Hi, I'm Tom.

I've Never Married, no children as to which I always get asked why. Its never happened, that is the simplest explanation I have.

I have a good sense of humor, although it's kind of dry.

I am easy going and easy to get along with, I'm the kind to go with the flow, unless I don't like the direction it's headed. I'm a quiet person for the most part but I do like my music loud (see head phone reference below)

My taste in music is broad . Galactic, DMB, Chris Cornell, Tesla, Black Crows, Widespread Panic, Pearl Jam, Bob Marley, John Mayer...just to name a few. I don't really have a favorite band, there are so many great ones out there, old and new. One of my favorite things are my wireless headphones. When no one is around, you can guess what I'm doing.

Love Red wine and strong coffee (cream and sugar please)

I dress well most of the time, but I am just as comfortable in jeans...(prefer Khaki's as there is more room)

I prefer shoes over sneakers, which I shine often. "Never stop shining!"

I cook, My Specialties include but not limited to: Red Sauce, Alfredo Sauce, Homemade pasta, chicken, seafood of any kind. Coconut soup, Steaks, Greens and Beans.....I like breakfast for dinner too!!

I clean. no dishes in the sink my house. Two of the very few pet peeves I have are running out out paper towels and dish soap. do I get points for being lame? ha-ha

I like shooting guns (don't hunt, I grocery shop). Target shooting is a blast (literally)

I like to fish. The opening day of trout season in the spring is a holiday to me. It's also April Fool's day, which I have been several times. The trout have had the last laugh on many occasions.

I have been to several countries. England, Italy, Spain, Greece, Turkey, Egypt, I was in the Navy back in the day. The coolest places I visited was Athens and London. I find antiquity interesting.

I like going to new restaurants...Riley's, Kelley's, Asti Cafe and Laci's Tapas bar are a few of my favorites in town.

I watch movies, nothing too scary.

I'm not a bar fly, but I do like to go out on occasion to see a band or meet up with friends. Frank and Burns is one of my favorite bands to see.

I'm a food pusher. I like to eat. If I cook, you eat. Capish!? I don't waste. Kids are starving, and not just in China. An old adage from my grandfather. I grew up with humble means, which makes me appreciate the things that I have more than most.. I'm not afraid to admit that. I don't feel the need to surround myself with too many materialistic things. Although I do have a home that needed furnishing. Who has 5 couches? Me!

I consider myself to be a good person. Although, I'd rather laugh with the sinner's than cry with the Saints.

I am always myself, what you see is what you get.

I am looking to meet someone to spend time with, doing whatever it is we feel like doing. My only expectation is that you are yourself, always, as I will be as well.

I'm still working on writing this, obviously there is more to me than what I have written. And, of course I have only written the good things. I'm not a saint. There is also a partying side of me. As I've grown older, I have mellowed in that aspect but I absolutely like to enjoy myself and I like others who surround me to enjoy themselves as well. I prefer to do the majority of my partying these days at home.