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53 Lafayette, CA Man


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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 48–63
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Jun 28
6′ 1″ (1.85m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Other, but not too serious about it
Scorpio, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from university
Rather not say
Likes dogs
English (Fluently), Spanish (Poorly)
My self-summary
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I spend a lot of time in San Francisco, Berkeley/Oakland, and Marin, am considering moving back to one of those areas now that my daughter is on her own, and I am open to meeting women who live in any of those areas. I consider myself an explorer and enjoy adventures to other countries, around California, or the Bay Area, and the adventure of getting to know new people. I love diversity in life experiences, especially experiencing different cultures, lands, and people. I love the outdoors. I'm a biker and a hiker and I like spontaneous weekend road trips. I consider myself easy-going, and down-to-earth and place a lot of importance on mindfulness and personal growth.
What I’m doing with my life
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I currently work in higher education. I am passionate about the environment and the effects of the impact of humans on nature and other humans, and am looking at transitioning into related work on a global basis.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Coming up with fun things to do and being a good partner in crime.
The first things people usually notice about me
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My easygoing and open nature.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Enjoy reading and always have a number of books off my bookshelves that I am in the process of reading. Often read biographies and nonfiction, but just bought a paper bag full of books at the library sale and am looking forward to reading some fiction by authors David Foster Wallace, Wally Lamb, Jonathan Franzen, and maybe even, finally, "The Girl with the Dragon Tattoo"!

Am a lifelong film lover; used to work in the film industry in San Francisco and L. A. Prefer independent and international films, but see what I like out of Hollywood as well. Attend the San Francisco Film Festival every year. Saw "No More Road Trips", "Google and The World Brain", and "The Pervert's Guide to Ideology" this year.

Don't watch a lot of TV but favorite shows are Daily Show, Colbert Report, Mad Men.

Enjoy all kinds of music but prefer rock, folk, blues, and alternative, and the great variety of music genres represented at The Hardly Strictly Bluegrass Festival, to which I go all three days every year. Have seen acts as diverse as Robert Plant, Patty Griffin, Glen Hansard, Patti Smith, Randy Newman, Lyle Lovett, Robert Earl Keen, Conor Oberst, Jenny Lewis, and Gillian Welch. Going next weekend to the first annual Bottle Rock Festival in Napa and will see Train, The Wallflowers, Brandi Carlile, Cake, Rodrigo y Gabriela and Michael Franti, among others.

Love Italian, Asian, French, California cuisine, Mexican, and trying foods from different cultures, as long as it's not too spicy!
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Friends, travel, music, film, athletic activity, and love.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Finding a better way to weave the things I really care about in life into my relationships and the way I make a living.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Going to see live music, a film, a sporting event, eating out, hanging out with friends, chilling out at home, or some combination of those.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I'm actually older than my profile says but am much younger in spirit, looks, and lifestyle. I don't believe my chronological age truly represents me and don't want to be eliminated based on a number - hope you understand.
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