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tomtomtank

27 M Cary, NC

My Details

Last Online
Jun 13
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 10″ (1.78m)
Body Type
A little extra
Diet
Mostly anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Christianity
Sign
Sagittarius, but it doesn’t matter
Education
Graduated from university
Job
Technology
Income
$60,000–$70,000
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Pets
Dislikes cats
Speaks
English (Fluently), Spanish (Poorly), Latin (Poorly), C++ (Fluently)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I am a geek. Whew, got that out of the way. Oh yeah, summary I guess I should say more.

I'm originally from Florida and lived for 12 years in the mountains. I escaped to school in Raleigh and now work in software development (which is totally awesome). I spend a large amount of time around computers. Usually working, playing video games, watching Netflix or reading random things on Wikipedia. I tend to be a bit random with my thoughts, but if you can follow along I promise there will at least be a laugh along the way.

I spend at least one day a week (usually 2-3) working with friends on various RP things (LARP, D&D, etc).
Myers-Briggs: ESTP

I am fun, kind and energetic.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Real life grinding, well at least that's what it feels like.

I'm working my way through the programming world.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Computers
Making people smile and laugh around me
Getting distracted
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Shoulders? Most old guys are like: "Wow, you must have been good a football player back in the day." I never played football, just soccer. Where I scared the little people.

I've been told I have cute dimples. At the time, I was unaware I had dimples.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Books: Who am I kidding, I don't really read books anymore. I started the Illiad and am working on a bunch of certification books. But mostly, I just read on Wikipedia. I am quite curious by nature, so I spend a lot of time just trying to determine how things work.

Movies:Typical guy when it boils down to it. (Braveheart, Gladiator, Matrix, etc)

Music: A lot of stuff.

Food: I'm an excellent cook. So basically anything that I make. Italian, Mexican, Chinese, anything from Applebee's but better, Sante Fe, Tex mex, French, and quite a few other things. I love calamari (fried squid), but it has to be made right and there's only one way to find out: Try it. I get excited if I can find somewhere that cooks it correctly.

TV: Burn Notice, Firefly, White Collar, and most crime dramas. All of this happens on Netflix.

Other: I prefer to spend my time with people. Usually there something going on at my house on the weekend with friends. During the week I try to just relax.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
that are not on the bottom of Maslow's hierarchy of needs...

Laughter
Conversation
A good chair
Back-scratcher
Hot showers
Computers
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Computers/technology

Physics... Seriously, a lot of mental experiments. Einstein discovered special relativity by simply trying to understand what it would be like to ride a light beam. Newton discovered gravity by thinking about why the moon didn't crash into the Earth but apples and meteors did.

RP stuff, like how cool it would be to take an adventure... [insert nerdy rant here]
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Probably, gaming or out with friends. It really depends on what options I want to take. Usually, gaming or watching TV.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I'm not really private.

I've lit the following on fire by accident: My own pants, a flat top with nothing on it, two fryers, and a trashcan that I tried to put out with my friends glass of coke.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 20–29
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You want to know more about RP or LARP.

You know how to use a homonym.

You made it this far and think we might have something in common.