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36 / M / Straight / Single

Colchester, Connecticut

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Last Online
Online now!
Ethnicity
White
Height
6′ 3″ (1.91m).
Body Type
Average
Diet
Smokes
Drinks
Drugs
Religion
Other
Sign
Aquarius but it doesn’t matter
Education
Graduated from college/university
Job
Other
Income
Rather not say
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids, and doesn’t want any
Pets
Speaks
English (Fluently)

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My self-summary
I would like to think that I am very interesting but I'm not sure how one would judge that upon themselves.

I like music (alot), movies, art, history, random folklore, junk stores, cooking ribs, rambling on about things, and travel.

I collect vinyl, crush my netflix account and watch alot of TV shows about working blue collar folks doing dangerous or manual labor jobs (I think it is white collar guilt).

I have been getting more and more into paintings.

I love historical home tours.

I usually go to see music every week.
What I’m doing with my life
I work in Health Insurance. I don't love it, but in the words of Kids in The Hall, "The only thing worse than a job is looking for a job".
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Books: Mostly non fiction and mostly music related books. Just finished that Keith Richard's autobiography from last year. I love autobiographies from old country singers. Some of those guys lived "rock and roll" lives that people in music today could only fantasize about.

Movies: Mostly indies, foreign film, documentaries, and older stuff. I get obsessed with directors. Some of my favorites are Werner Herzog, Jim Jarmusch, The Coen Brothers, PT Anderson, Wes Anderson, Lars Van Triers, and Kubrick. I usually go to the movie theaters a few times a month.

Music: Honestly all sorts of things. I have almost 4000 Cds and around 1500 records. I love alot of different types of music but indie rock and alt country/bluegrass/Americana are my main jams. My favorites include Elvis Costello, Tom Waits, Dylan, Talking Heads, Richard Thompson, The Drive-by Truckers, Lucero, Robyn Hitchcock, Neko Case, Pavement, Sonic Youth, Dirty Projectors, Wolf Parade, Beach House, Bonnie Prince Billy, The National, Lost in the Trees, Wye Oak, The Kinks, Okkervill River, Porter Wagoner, New Pornographers, Nick Cave, old timey stuff, Mingus, Larry and his Flask, Hold Steady, Eric Dolphy, Muddy Waters, Howlin Wolf, The Stones, blah blah blah. I can spend hours and hours in a good record store. We have 100 years of recorded music at our finger tips. Why would you ever limit yourself to one tiny piece of that pie.

TV:Deadliest Catch, Tim and Eric Awesome Show, 60 minutes, Breaking Bad, Arrested Development, Get a Life, Always Sunny in Philadelphia, Modern Family, Top Gear, The CBS Sunday Morning show, Louie, Childrens Hospital.
The six things I could never do without
-electricity
-a record player
-BBQ
-netflix
-air conditioning
-internet
I spend a lot of time thinking about
I have a lot of random thoughts about alot of random things.
On a typical Friday night I am
Seeing a band or movie or home clearing off the Tivo.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I hate the summer. How can people even think in the hot temperatures. Fall/Early Winter is my time to shine. People look better in coats. I wish I lived in a walk in refrigerator.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 29–41
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, activity partners
You should message me if
If you are an interesting person with neat interests and hobbies.

Life is too short to hang around with boring people.