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toniprism

66 / F / straight / Single

Oxford, Michigan

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Ethnicity
White
Height
5' 3" (1.60m).
Body Type
Full figured
Looking For
New friends, Long-term dating
Smokes
No
Drinks
Sometimes
Drugs
Never
Religion
Christianity but not too serious about it
Sign
Capricorn but it doesn’t matter
Education
Graduated from two-year college
Job
Other
Income
Rather not say
Kids
Has children
Pets
Languages
English

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I am compassionate, playful, and upbeat.

My Self-Summary

I am a retired computer teacher, and a widow (was married 44 years). My children are 3 sons: one each in Boston, Seattle, and Waterford. I have a wonderful daughter-in-law and 2 super grand daughters in Waterford also. My family is the touchstone and center of my life.
I am moderately active, enjoy the outdoors, and fun with friends doing just about anything. My worldview is global, and hopeful.
I have a playful sense of humor, and love witty or serious conversation.
I am hoping to meet a playful, active man, who is affectionate and family-oriented.

What I’m doing with my life

Since I am retired, I have a lot of leeway. In the summer, I golf twice weekly if possible. I like to ride my bike, and kayak occasionally, would do this a lot more if I had a like-minded companion.
Card playing is an activity I enjoy, as well as other games. Plays and movies are essential. I love live music of most genres. I love dance, love watching it, and dancing on the few occasions that allow for it.
I am a one day a week on duty gramma, doing school pickup, homework help, and just enjoying them.
I spend 3 months of the winter in Florida.....January thru April.

I’m really good at

Computers and math, my last job was teaching and tutoring in both. I would like to find an outlet for that skill that is useful in my community.
I'm organized pretty well, and financially secure. Money management is a strong suit.
I communicate well, and am a good friend and helpful to those who need an understanding ear, or practical assistance.

The first things people usually notice about me

I guess that I am quite outgoing, and happy to welcome new people to any group where I am.
I tend to be a little sassy, and a cut up, I just enjoy humor and use it to make the day brighter.

My favorite books, movies, music, and food

Favorite books are mysteries, but not gory. I try to temper this with some literature, and non-fiction. I love a humorous book, but have used up all of those in my local library where I am a regular visitor.
In movies, I really enjoy a great performance in any genre, except horror. Like drama, comedy, action films that have some plot to them, and well developed characters.
Most music is enjoyable, except really abrasive jazz, angry rap, and I haven't been acquainted with opera.
I never met a burger I didn't like. Like to explore ethnic foods.

The six things I could never do without

The rich life that comes from belonging to a family
The affection and companionship of great friendships
Experiencing art and music in its many forms
Enjoying nature in all her variety
Staying active and appreciating the ability to do so
Continuing to learn about people, relationships, the growth of knowledge in this modern world.

I spend a lot of time thinking about

Finding a partner to share the rest of my life.
I loved being married, and had a great guy in my life, not to say life was always perfect, we faced challenges like everyone does. But on balance, it was way heavy on the glass half full side.
Loving and being loved is the pinnacle of human experience, I think, and I miss it a lot.

On a typical Friday night I am

Once a month playing nickel-dime poker...
Sometimes out with friends or family, sometimes home alone reading or watching a movie.
Maybe a bonfire with the neighbors.....in the summertime.

The most private thing I’m willing to admit here

I have a birthmark under my pinky toe.

You should message me if

Anything I've said here appeals to you........
If you would like to meet for coffee and chat......
If you would like to join a local widow/widowers group, I belong to two of them.