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36 Indianapolis, IN Man


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  • Ages 28–40
  • Near me
  • Who are single
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My Details

Last Online
Today – 3:16pm
5′ 10″ (1.78m)
Body Type
Virgo, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from university
Politics / Government
Has a kid
English, Spanish (Poorly)

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My self-summary
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Let's see... I was born in Indianapolis, but I lived in Corpus Christi, TX, from ages 5-18 and moved back to Indiana afterwards. I studied music in college and have been playing sax professionally since I was 16. I know what you're thinking...shit, a broke musician. I have a real job too! Think of me as Batman. Physician Recruiter for a government agency by day, and musician by night. :)
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I've been putting a lot of effort on eating healthier foods. I buy mostly organic foods and find it fun discovering simple healthy dishes to make. I make a pretty damn good vegan chili.

Playing music
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
getting out of pickles
tennis (for an amateur)
playing the sax
listening to others with an open mind
making kick-ass guacamole
staying calm under stressful situations
making damn good vegan chili

I swear, I'm really good at a lot of other things...
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
This is very cliche, but I suppose my smile. You tell me.
Oh, my ass looks good in jeans. Hold on, that's what dudes say to me.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Music: John Coltrane; Joshua Redman, Chris Potter; Stereolab; Bjork; Herbie Hancock; Brad Mehldau; Happy Apple; Cornelius; Radiohead; New Deal; Jaga Jazzist; Joel Frahm; Sarah Donner; Philadelphia Experiment; Feist; Soulive; Datarock, LCD Soundsystem and much much more

Books: Sirens of Titan; The Catcher in the Rye; Apathy and other small victories; Let's Pretend This Never Happened

Shows: Mixology; Believe; Lost; Revolution; 24; Once Upon a Time; Modern Family; How I met your mother; Big Bang Theory; White Collar; New Girl; Breaking Bad; Orange is the New Black; Californication; Scandal

Food: Thai; Sushi; Mexican; Indian; Ethiopian; Korean; Chinese; Italian; Mediterranean .... I guess I can just summarize by saying I like everything!

Movies: Instructions not included; Liberal Arts;
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
my daughter; music; spicy food; friends; family; a good IPA
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
*Sometimes I wonder how I made it alive through childhood.
I'm not kidding, being a kid in the 80s was fucking dangerous. When I was kid, we didn't stay inside and play video games all day; instead, we had rock fights, jumped off roofs , played in the sewers (Teenage Mutant Ninja Turtles was really popular back in the day), played guns (not pansy guns that make stupid electronic sounds but shooting each other with real BB guns), watched Jean-Claude Van Damme movies and tried out karate moves on my brother ...I can go on and on.

This is why parents these days are paranoid about their kids safety and they should be! Well...maybe if you have a boy. If you have a girl, then don't let them play with boys until like never.

*"No one feels like an adult; world's' dirtiest secret." From the movie "Liberal Arts"

11/01/14 ***Most recently, I've been thinking a lot about David Hasslehoff's version of the song "Hook on a Feeling". Can someone explain this to me?? I don't get it.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
IDK....varies from week to week. Sometimes I'm playing a gig, hanging out with friends, or just staying home and relaxing.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
For some reason, I always have to have the volume levels for TVs, stereos, etc...on even numbers. I know, it's stupid! Don't judge me