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26 F Portland, OR

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Today – 10:13am
5′ 5″ (1.65m)
Body Type
Graduated from university
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids
English (Fluently), Spanish (Okay), C++ (Poorly), LISP (Poorly)

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My self-summary
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"Not chaos-like together crush'd and bruis'd,
But as the world, harmoniously confus'd,
Where order in variety we see,
And where, though all things differ, all agree."

--Alexander Pope
What I’m doing with my life
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I work construction. I also do volunteer work related to violence, trauma, recovery, and self defense. In my free time, I read about history, natural history, and infrastructure. After a few years of wandering, I'm settling down -- building a community and a meaningful career here in Portland, thinking about buying a house, all that stuff.
I’m really good at
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switching it up between lead and follow at the contra dance.
The first things people usually notice about me
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"Put that down, it's too heavy for you! I bet it's heavier than a baby!"
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Polyphony -- chaos and consonance. Shape-note/Sacred Harp, noisy Chicago creative jazz (AACM, Tatsu Aoki, Nicole Mitchell, Darius Savage, David Boykin...), twisty subversive contortionist rhythm (Telefon Tel Aviv, Glenn Kotche, Michael Zerang), sweet/raucous Americana (Punch Brothers, Old Crow Medicine Show, Will Oldham) & murder ballads.

Too many books. Feminist sci-fi, especially "Xenogenesis" by Octavia Butler, "Woman on the Edge of Time" by Marge Piercy, everything by Joan Slonczewski (especially "A Door into Ocean" and "Brain Plague").

Podcasts: 99% Invisible (architecture and design); Backstory Radio (American history)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Public infrastructure, structural oppression, tool and object design, violence/trauma/recovery, eusocial insects, animal architecture, sanitation, water systems.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Blues dancing.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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Not private, but very important: yes means yes, period. And consent is sexy.
I’m looking for
  • Guys and girls who like bi girls
  • Ages 20–35
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
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sincerity > sarcasm

You are on board with non-monogamy. I prefer to have multiple loving relationships in my life. I am not looking for random hookups.

You want to go social dancing (contra, blues, swing, tango). I am a competent lead and follow at contra. I'm new to blues dancing and totally infatuated with it.

You don't expect me to be either exactly butch or exactly femme.

I'm looking to meet new friends and romantic partners. I like to get to know a new person with no real expectations, see if there's a spark of friendship or romance, and take it from there.