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40 M Bethel Park, PA

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6′ 0″ (1.83m)
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Mostly vegetarian
Graduated from masters program
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My self-summary
Ah yes! Shameless self promotion -- Does this reek of despiration? How much can you really divulge about yourself on a site like this? Even if I spilled my guts, how would you know I was telling the truth? If you want to know about me, just ask... I'll tell you. Some simple things about me: I love to laugh! I try to find humor in every situation (with the possible exception of death, but even that is not an absolute --ever read the Darwin Awards?). I love funny movies, funny commercials, comedians and funny people in general. If you're quick witted, you're in! People who take life too seriously are about as much fun as reading Immanuel Kant!...
No thanks!

I am unique, original, eclectic and I certainly march to the beat of my own drummer. I am a doer!... I live my life! Every time I drive by a cemetery I am reminded that that is where we are all headed. So I refuse to be a bystander in life. We only get one shot at this! Carpe Diem BABY!!!

I now believe that John Lennon was right! All you need is love. I have much of it to give and I'm looking for a special person with whom I can share that gift. I suppose that's what we're all looking for here right? I want to find that woman who makes my heart skip a beat every time I see her name pop up on my caller ID; a woman I can watch walk into a room and feel my spirit lifting when our eyes meet; I want to meet my best friend and share an amazing intimate connection that poets would want to write about.... Okay, yes, I am a hopeless romantic!

It is so difficult to judge a book by its cover; or a woman's true beauty from a 1" thumbnail photo. But sometimes I'll see that Je ne sais quoi... that inexplicable nuance that draws me in for a closer look.

The qualities/characteristics I find most appealing are self-confidence and independence. I think that women are the most beautiful when they are in a relaxed and comfortable mode. Nothing is sexier to me than a woman in sweatpants and a t-shirt with her hair pulled up and little to no makeup....That is real..That is SEXY! (bonus points if the sweat pants have writing across the back ;-)

My greatest passion in life is music. I currently play in a rock band and I thoroughly enjoy every second of it! The expression of my thoughts and emotion through the medium of music is one of the most cathartic experiences I know.

I love art -- creative expression in all forms really. I enjoy Painting, graphic design and drawing. I enjoy working out, cycling, running, walking and lifting weights. I'm not a muscle head or a gym rat, but I train for and compete in triathlons. I believe in moderation with most things. I try to eat a healthy diet, but I have a massive sweet tooth -- did someone say cheesecake? I believe that spirituality is a subjective and personal journey, as such I do not subscribe to the tenets of any single religion. I enjoy reading, but I seldom have time to get into a good book. I am a movie junkie. my perfect date would be curling up on the couch with a good movie, a bottle of wine and a block of cheese.
What I’m doing with my life
I’m really good at
hmmmm... what do I want to admit here? I'm a good communicator, artist, musician/singer, soccer, cycling, kissing
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Monty Python and the Holy Grail, Blazing Saddles, The Shawshank Redemption, A Walk in the Woods, The Road Less Traveled... so many to name.
The six things I could never do without
love, music, my phone, my guitar, kissing, my eyes
I spend a lot of time thinking about
I'm a pretty introspective person, I spend a lot of time pondering the great existential dilemma. I think about the nature of people and what my ideal relationship would be like.

I also think about the mistakes I've made in my life and how I've learned from them. Wisdom is a beautiful thing.
On a typical Friday night I am
playing shows with my band
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
Hmmmm.... let me rustle through this closet full of skeletons..... Oh, ok... here we go: Went on a family vacation with my ex wife's family several years ago. We were all at the beach in Florida. my ex wife caught me checking out her sister's boobs.

Sometimes I am so fallibly male.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 26–44
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
If you find yourself looking at my photo and imagine yourself staring into my eyes for hours as your heart flutters!!!

You should NEVER settle for anything less!!!