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  • Ages 21–30
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My details

Last online
Feb 21, 2013
6′ 2″ (1.88m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Graduated from university
Doesn’t have kids
Has dogs
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I was primarily raised in Texas and South Carolina, but moved out to Colorado two years ago after living in DC for a bit.

A ridiculous amount of my time revolves around rugby - I work in the USA Rugby national office, practice with my club twice a week, and have a match almost every Saturday. I'm also a referee, so I tend to officiate a game every other week or so as well.

Political philosophy is a huge part of my intellectual life, but I rarely allow myself to be drawn into the Red vs. Blue nonsense. I much prefer theory and debate over electoral stuff. That being said, if you're pro-war or think it's the government's job to solve everything, we're probably not going to get along.

I may never like you more than I love my dog. Don't take it personally.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Too much rugby.

Eventually, I'll be off to graduate school for a mixture of work in political science, social psychology, and urban planning (or so I like to believe).
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Knowing random bullshit that in almost no way helps humanity. :/
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
*I have no idea what the first things people notice are, but here are some things that people tend to notice overall...

-My facial hair turns red as it grows longer. Yes, like a Viking.
-I have a very dry and sarcastic sense of humor
-I’m confident and not afraid to share an opinion if it's backed by something I've learned/read/observed
-I’m shitty at making eye contact and can be poor with verbal tones
-If I'm drunk or talking to a fellow Southerner: my accent
-I say 'fuck' more than I probably should
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books: Almost anything by Philip K. Dick (The Unteleported Man; Lies, Inc.; The Penultimate Truth; etc.) or Ursula Le Guin (The Dispossessed, The Left Hand of Darkness, etc.), A People’s History of the United States [Zinn], The Imperial Cruise [Bradley], Green Metropolis [Owen], Non-Violence: The History of a Dangerous Idea [Kurlansky], The Watchmen [Moore], and Civil Disobedience [Thoreau]. I also like a lot of political theory, psychology, and urban planning books that would be a bit drab to list.

Movies: The Fountain, The Prestige, A Clockwork Orange, 2001: A Space Odyssey, V for Vendetta, District 9, the Rocky series (especially the first Rocky), most of the Batman films (Batman Begins being the best of them), American History X, What Dreams May Come, The Breakfast Club, Forgetting Sarah Marshall, BASEketball, and Team America, to name a few. I'm also a fan of countless documentaries (Why We Fight, etc.).

Shows: I don’t have cable, so... if I watch a television show (which isn’t often), it’s typically sports programming, a comedy of some sort (South Park, Seinfeld, etc.), or a well-produced movie-channel series (Rome, Boardwalk Empire, etc.) - assuming I can watch it via my phone or it's in syndication. If 'shows' is supposed to mean Broadway, I have a soft spot for Les Misérables.

Music: I enjoy nearly everything but gangster rap, though if you let me play with the radio I’m most likely to select alternative/folk country (Old 97s, The Haints, Jeff Black, etc.), jazz (Louis Armstrong, Ella Fitzgerald, Charlie Parker, Thelonious Monk, etc.), older country-western (Johnny Cash, Waylon Jennings, etc.), or punk/pop-punk (Anti-Flag, Rise Against, etc.).

Food: Almost anything except seafood, pork, and vegan-centric plates. In particular, I'm a fan of Mexican, Asian, Italian, and dishes with game meat. If you make it to a 5th (or so) date with me, I *might* cook my last pack of elk for you. Maybe.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
-Philosophical discussions
-Tasks/games that keep my mind active (chess, RISK, sudoku, etc.)
-Good beer
-Thought-provoking books
-Awe-inspiring sights from nature
-Big dreams/goals

Things I’d like to not do without (but realize I eventually will):
-My father
-My dog
-Participation in sports
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Political theory, urban planning, social psychology, the arts, sports administration, and things I’d like to write.

What parts of the world I can get rugby jobs in and the specifics of pet immigration policies.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Doing something low-key since I usually have a rugby-related activity going on the following day (be it playing, refereeing, working, or a combination therein).

In the winter I'm probably getting a few drinks, reading, and/or spending time with my dog.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I check profiles in the following order: Photos > The Two of Us: Unacceptable Answers > About.

If you answer that the world would be better off if people with low IQs couldn't reproduce, and then miss an easy question, I will probably laugh.

People keep telling me that my profile is "intense," but I don't know why. I don't think of myself as an intense person.
You should message me if
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-You agree there are too many absolutes in the questions on here (I'm open-minded to a lot of things and don't like painting myself into a corner)
-You love tasting different beers on the regular
-You hate crowded clubs/bars and would rather go to a place such as a museum, the zoo, or an uncrowded bar if/when we spend time together
-You correctly spell the words in your messages 99% of the time and are a fan of the Oxford comma
-You can handle that I was rather recently in a relationship for five and a half years and that I'll probably slow-play things when/as I ease back into dating (this is just a disclaimer because some people are taken aback by this; I'm over it)
-You can either tolerate or gleefully mock my overuse of parentheses (I prefer the former)