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40 / M / Straight / Single

Tampa, Florida

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Last Online
Online now!
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 10″ (1.78m).
Body Type
Fit
Diet
Mostly anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Agnosticism but not too serious about it
Sign
Education
Graduated from college/university
Job
Artistic / Musical / Writer
Income
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids
Pets
Speaks
English (Fluently), Italian (Poorly)

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My self-summary
ME:
• Fit, toned and physically active (5'10" / 160#)
• Healthy (Drug and STD free)
• Financially secure
• Creative, artistic (musician, photographer)
• Low maintenance (zero baggage/drama, sane)
• Educated (BA in communication, minor in economics)
• A class act (speech, grooming, responsible behavior)

I don't jump out of airplanes, run marathons, rock climb or take my bike on 100 mile rides. I do hike a lot, swim when the water's warm, hit the gym 3x a week, cycle slowly in places with no cars, read constantly, practice my music, and explore the world with my SLR camera gear. I've traveled extensively, so I know lots of interesting spots to visit on long weekends and day trips.

I currently split my time between the Tampa Bay area and northern California, and I'm willing and able to travel nearly anywhere for the right person.

YOU:
I'm looking for a fit, classy and attractive female to have some fun with and spoil just a little. Someone who appreciates the simple things like a top-down drive along the coast, an easy day hike on the beach or in the mountains, or a quiet night at home. I won't make excessive demands on your time. You can maintain your current friends and lifestyle. I'm open to something more if it makes sense for both of us, but it's definitely not a requirement. I think it's more interesting if we don't match up exactly, but hard drug use, smoking, large tattoos and/or religious bigotry are non-starters.

PS:
I don't disclose my birthdate to a public internet site. The photos are all recent, I'm over forty, look my age, and I don't color my hair.
What I’m doing with my life
I'm currently juggling a couple of music projects, volunteering where I feel it will accomplish something truly worthwhile, attempting to learn the (annoyingly difficult) game of golf and thinking about where I want to visit next in my travels.
I’m really good at
. . . foot massages, traveling light, keeping things interesting, and paying attention to the details.
The first things people usually notice about me
What I look like, of course, and that I don't take myself, or anyone else for that matter, too seriously. (Okay, I would gladly share a laugh with Nelson Mandela or the Dalai Lama, but I would also take them seriously indeed.)
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Clapton, Stevie Ray, Jimi, Joe Bonamassa, Derek Trucks, Bonnie Raitt, Foo Fighters, Kurt Cobain, Alanis Morissette, Pearl Jam, Umphrey's McGee, Buddy Guy, Wilco, Sleater-Kinney, Arcade Fire, Them Crooked Vultures, Black Keys, Jeff Beck, Florence + the Machine, Opeth, King Crimson, Pink Floyd, Peter Gabriel, Holst, Mozart, Coltrane, Aaron Copland, Miles Davis, foreign flics, PBS, Chris Hitchens, Salman Rushdie, William James, Diane Ackerman, Charles Darwin, Samuel Butler, wild salmon, sticky rice, fruit smoothies, and a whole bunch of other people and stuff you may or may not care about.
The six things I could never do without
Sunshine, nature, good health, music, freedom, women.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
. . . how to achieve a reasonable balance between excessive consumption and asctecism. I like the material comforts of life, but I realise they do not give it meaning, and the natural world suffers the consequences. A day may come when I decide to give them all up, but I'm not ready to just yet.
On a typical Friday night I am
. . . out listening to or playing music, at home practicing and/or reading, out with friends or (occasionally) on a date.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
That I have a really, really big. . . brain!
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 27–45
  • Located anywhere
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
. . . any of this sounds appealing, you think I'm kind of cute, or if you just want to know more. I won't jump to any wild conclusions if you contact me first, so feel free. And yes, brainy is also good. I'd love to meet a woman who is intellectually challenging. Who knows, maybe we could teach each other a few things?