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34 Oakland, CA Man


I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 21–35
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Feb 17
6′ 3″ (1.91m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Buddhism, but not too serious about it
Cancer, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from university
Art / Music / Writing
Less than $20,000
Likes dogs and dislikes cats
English (Fluently)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Hey guys.. I am from Boston.. but I now live in Oakland! east coast to west coast.... I need a friend or a date...ahem.. my name is Christopher.. most people call me Topher.. some call me Chris.. others call me Christopher..its up to you..

I am ideally looking for someone to develop a great friendship with.. all good things begin there.. from that I would love to move forward and see where things can go.. Im at the point in my life where my 20s are over and my 30s are for travelling, settling into something good and really enjoying the last bout of youth and the looks we have left.. lol.

I am a lot of fun to be around, I like random adventures and I am open to all sorts of scenes and conversations... It seems most of my friends are getting married, having kids and I am quickly becoming a 3rd wheel.. so I really need someone to come to dinners and events with me..(joking).. Either way, I am here.. thats a start.. Where are you?
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I was an Elementary School Art Teacher once.. and then I decided I wanted to see other I else? I am a nanny, photographer, writer, artist, designer, jack of all trade wanderer and fellow human looking around while I am here.. figured it was time for me to have a partner in crime to look around with me...
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
making people laugh.
good conversations.
being a friend.
photography and art.
being a nanny.
being a teacher.
filling out boxes.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
My height (6'3).. My smile (its big and goofy).. My inviting vibe (i have good vibes)
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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From My Facebook Profile:
Books: I love to read! Me Talk Pretty One Day, She's Come Undone, Running with Scissors,DRY, The Philosophy of Andy Warhol,The Zen of Oz, Wicked, Lovely Bones,Autobiographies,Queen and Country,My life at Grey Gardens, Buddhism. Books in general, big, small, old, new..I love bookstores. Im in the process of writing a book! .

Movies: I enjoy films of all kinds.New and Old.Documentaries. Grey Gardens, Garden State, Wizard of oz, The Wiz, Charlie and the Chocolate Factory, Neverending Story, Steel Magnolias, Rent, Empire Records, John Hughes Movies, Harry Potter, Human Traffic,Cruel Intentions, Woodstock 1969, The Witches,Shortbus, Headwig and the Angry inch, Yellow Submarine,Rules of Attraction,Hocus Pocus,The Queen,9to5,Flight of the navigator,Party Monster,Across the Universe,Halloweentown,marie antoinette, Stardust,the cockettes, Burning Man,Rear Window,Planet Earth, A Christmas Story .. So many others.....

TV Shows: I rarely watch tv...But I dig documentaries, youtube stuff, ellen, oprah, the news, E!....

Music: Music Heals The Soul - I love and live for music - big fan of Sarah Mclachlan, Tori Amos, The Killers, The Sundays, Coldplay, The Shins, Brand New Heavies, Jack Johnson, The Pretenders, George Michael,The Sugarplastics, Modest Mouse, The Scissor Sisters, Keane, Alanis Morisette, Coldplay, Elton John, Mamas and the Papas, Cat Stevens, Woodstock 1969, Mazzy Star, Gwen Stefani/ No Doubt, Fleetwood Mac,Janis Joplin, Billie Holiday,Queen, The Beatles, Bob Marley,Lauryn Hill,Madonna,Pink Floyd,Zepplin,Garden State soundtrack, - always listening for new tunes. .
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
1. my family
2. my friends
3. my laptop
4. my messenger bag
5. my camera
6. you, wherever you are.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
everything. I am really philosophical and love to think of things.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
doing... whatever the week brings me on that Friday :)
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
if I admit it here it wouldnt be so private.. so I will tell you when were dating.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
you are under 35..over 21..have a brain in your head, a good friendship to offer and an open mind to life and adventure..are cute, have a good set of teeth and a nice head of hair..and interest in me!