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36 M Ames, IA

I’m looking for

  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 24–48
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Sep 4
6′ 0″ (1.83m)
Body Type
Graduated from two-year college
Relationship Status
Seeing Someone
Relationship Type
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently)

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My self-summary
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Hello. A little about me. I love to read. Enjoy movies and very few tv shows. I enjoy music quite a lot. I love to go out and do many things, but I also enjoy just spending time at home and enjoying a quiet evening.

I'm starting to get a little frustrated with this dating thing. I've been trying for awhile and nothing. Maybe some people are meant to be single. Maybe people base things on looks, and I seem to be lacking in that department. The few dates I've been in I've been told I can be very intimidating. As in a conversational stand point. I've been told by some women that they are afraid of how "smart" I am I may become bored or that I would lose interest in them. Maybe that was just a "line" and they don't want to hurt my feelings with the truth.

I don't mean to sound jaded or anything like that, I'm just telling you the things I've faced in this whole "dating" adventure. Sometimes I think maybe it's time to give up, but then I never give up on anything.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I'm heading back to school. I found I was bored with what I was doing and have always loved learning. We'll see where that leads me.

I spend a lot of time with my friends, playing games, and watching movies. We do a lot together, and it's a great time.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Being creative. I'm a pretty fair cook. Knowing a lot of useless things about TV and movies. Music knowledge. I guess I'm really good at my job too.
The first things people usually notice about me
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Probably the glasses. Or curly hair.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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a)Johnathan Strange and Mr. Norrell, anything by Neil Gaiman, jasper fforde, Christopher Moore

B)Rushmore, Amelie, anything Marx Brothers, anything Monty Python, Citizen Kane, Shaun of the Dead. A ton more.

C)Wilco, Dan Bern, Soul Coughing, M. Doughty, anything that Stephin Merritt does, Ryan Adams, Elliott Smith, Bob Dylan, They Might Be Giants, Beastie Boys, Bright Eyes, the mountain goats, Aesop rock, okkervil river.

D) Nothing really, Lasagna maybe. Pizza is ok.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
1)Friends 2)Music 3)Reading 4)Food(need it to live) 5)A shower, daily. 6).........
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
If I could make a movie or write a book, what would I do. I think a lot about what the future holds. I never thought I'd be doing what I'm doing now, or living where I am now. You never know what's going to happen, and it can be the most pleasant of suprises.

I also have been thinking a lot lately of getting a guitar and learning to play.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Usually doing something with my friends, but nothing too wild. Usually trying to figure out what to do on a typical Friday night.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I don't know really. I'm pretty open about everything.
You should message me if
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You like good conversation, with bits of silliness. If your looking for someone who is very caring and likes to have fun. Or if you just want to talk.