i love human beings. really fucking love them. just seeing some stranger from across the street that i may never talk to or know anything about brings me great joy. people are so damn amazing. everyone is full of magical stories and experiences. too many to ever hear all of them. i love meeting new people, and i guess thats why im on this site.
my convictions are very important to me, but i dont believe in right and wrong or good and evil. im interested in nuance and contradiction. and the things we dont understand. like the in between spaces of whats best for us and whats best for others. how do we reconcile conflicting needs?
i agree that you cant be neutral on a moving train and im very invested in the idea of accountability and taking responsibility for privilege, particularly when it comes to gender and race. i am a feminist and anti-racist who is not without folly but completely committed.
i have mountains of respect for my partner of over 10 years with whom i have a wonderful and lovely poly-amorous relationship.
(shes taking a break from okc.)
im not looking for romance on here nor am i not looking for romance. i do want to meet new people and hang out and have fun and whatever that looks like in reality is fine with me. i think you cant force or contrive these things anyways so no worries...all that being said, im a really great date. platonic or otherwise. im easy to be around, a good listener, thoughtful, fun and never ever sketchy or pushy.
generally speaking im really excited about life. about the projects im working on. about working with others to come up with creative solutions to little and big problems. about the fucking insanely beautiful, creative, trusting, sweet friends (that are all resisting the status quo in one way or another) that im so damn lucky to have in my life.