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toseekwithin

35 M Morganton, NC

My Details

Last Online
Today – 5:30pm
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 8″ (1.73m)
Body Type
Skinny
Diet
Mostly anything
Smokes
Yes
Drinks
Drugs
Never
Religion
Agnosticism, but not too serious about it
Sign
Pisces, and it’s fun to think about
Education
Working on university
Job
Student
Income
Less than $20,000
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids
Pets
Has cats
Speaks
English

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My self-summary
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I'm a freelance photographer who prefers shooting old abandoned houses instead of fashion or portraits. I guess you could say I'm drawn to the mystery of those kinds of places. Although I'm technically agnostic, I know a great deal about metaphysics and the paranormal.

I spend most of my time outdoors, either taking pictures, or working. I couldn't imagine living in a crowded city, or staying behind a desk all day.

Socially I'm an introvert, who will on occasion mingle in large crowds if the conditions are favourable. I don't drink, and I have no inclination towards drugs.

I'm not typical by any means. I value strength, intelligence, integrity and passion. I try as best I can to live with my heart, and balance my actions with gratitude and thoughtfulness.

I'm passionate about creating art, telling stories, and making a difference in the world. I love learning, and I desire personal growth more so than wealth or status.
What I’m doing with my life
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Working, photography, writing, and doing the best I can to live a purposeful life.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
problem solving, being a "good listener", domestic servitude, carpentry, gardening, writing, photography, creativity in general, mechanical work, seeing the metaphor, psychology.
The first things people usually notice about me
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My elven features, and my eyes.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Smoke and Mirrors, Nightmares and Dreamscapes, The Handmaid's Tale, House of Leaves, 777, Way Of The Peaceful Warrior, Illusions

What the Bleep Do We Know, Pi, Waking Life, The Girl With The Dragon Tattoo, Shortbus, Eternal Sunshine of The Spotless Mind,

Tool, Tori Amos, Lamb, Portishead, Bjork, Otis Redding, Alison Krauss
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
my camera, untouched wilderness, intellectual stimulation, literature, magick, knowledge, and diversity.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
androgyny, power exchange, ferocity, folklore, AI, metaphysics, philosophy, psychology, servitude, parallel dimensions, time travel, quantum physics.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Working on photography projects, out with friends, or enjoying a good book.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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D/s in really important to me. I've been involved and active in the lifestyle since my early twenties. I'm a service oriented switch, who leans more toward submission with the right person.

As a masochist, pain is a part of my "love language".

This seemed as good a place as any:
http://instagram.com/faerthorn
https://twitter.com/loveactbelieve
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 28–38
  • Located anywhere
  • For new friends, long-term dating
You should message me if
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Message me if you appreciate meaningful conversation. I'm here to meet real people who actually think and are curiously seeking knowledge outside the realm of the mundane.
Kink is great but I don't want to "scene" with anyone, nor pay a "Pro" to experience what I consider to be intimate and sacred.

I've mostly a switch personality but my hope is to explore the lines between D/s and M/s with someone who's naturally Dominant. Someone who understands that vulnerability, and service is a choice, not a character flaw nor a sign of weakness.