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36 • Morganton, NC • Man
I’m looking for
- Ages 28–38
- Located anywhere
- Who are single
- For new friends, long-term dating
- Last online
- Yesterday – 12:44pm
- 5′ 8″ (1.73m)
- Body type
- Mostly anything
- Agnosticism, but not too serious about it
- Pisces, and it’s fun to think about
- Working on university
- Less than $20,000
- Doesn’t have kids
- Has cats
I spend most of my time outdoors, either taking pictures, or working. I couldn't imagine living in a crowded city, or staying behind a desk all day.
Socially I'm an introvert, who will on occasion mingle in large crowds if the conditions are favourable. I don't drink, and I have no inclination towards drugs.
I'm not typical by any means. I value strength, intelligence, integrity and passion. I try as best I can to live with my heart, and balance my actions with gratitude and thoughtfulness.
I'm passionate about creating art, telling stories, and making a difference in the world. I love learning, and I desire personal growth more so than wealth or status.
What the Bleep Do We Know, Pi, Waking Life, The Girl With The Dragon Tattoo, Shortbus, Eternal Sunshine of The Spotless Mind,
Tool, Tori Amos, Lamb, Portishead, Bjork, Otis Redding, Alison Krauss
As a masochist, pain is a part of my "love language".
This seemed as good a place as any:
I'm writing this now, to let these words tumble out. To breath life into these ideas like pieces of clay and ancient rituals.
Would you burn your house down and all the things in it, if you realized it was all a lie?
Could you sift through the ashes and be okay with starting over?
Would you cross an endless desert in search of the things that stir your heart?
Can you sit alone in the darkness and accept every part of yourself no matter the consequences?
Would you accept the truth even if it meant that everything you thought you knew was wrong?
Do you have the courage and grace to put one foot in front of the other without a destination?
Are you willing to let go, to let love fill your life like a song that is the heartbeat of your soul?
Will you touch your own grief even if it feels like the weight of it will shatter everything you have left?
Could you trust me to carry you forward, when your strength has faded and you feel like giving up?
Can you say these words without hesitation:
I've mostly a switch personality but my hope is to explore the lines between D/s and M/s with someone who's naturally Dominant. Someone who understands that vulnerability, and service is a choice, not a character flaw nor a sign of weakness.
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