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36 Morganton, NC Man


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  • Ages 28-38
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Last online
Today – 8:58am
5' 8" (1.73m)
Body Type
Agnosticism but it’s not important
Working on University
Doesn’t have kids
Has cats
My self-summary
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I'm passionate, curious, intentional and sincere. I'm agnostic but I try to follow a path outlined by "Way Of The Peaceful Warrior and Master Po." My greatest aspiration is to have a positive effect on the world. Not in the sense of ending wars of curing diseases, but more along the lines of helping to solve social / cultural issues.

Like everyone else, I'm still struggling to figure out "my so called life", but I think the effort is important. Translating the "code" is much more meaningful to me than ruling the world while being stuck inside the "matrix".
What I’m doing with my life
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Working on a farm, photography, writing, and doing the best I can to live a purposeful life.
I’m really good at
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problem solving, being a "good listener", seeing the metaphor, psychology.
The first things people usually notice about me
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My elven features, and my eyes.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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My best friend and I read together almost every night. It would take me too long to list all of my favorites but here are a few that stood out among the rest.

Books: Smoke and Mirrors, Nightmares and Dreamscapes, The Handmaid's Tale, House of Leaves, 777, Way Of The Peaceful Warrior, Illusions, Swan Song, They Thirst, The Books of Magic,

Movies: What the Bleep Do We Know, Pi, Waking Life, The Girl With The Dragon Tattoo, Shortbus, Eternal Sunshine of The Spotless Mind, Sweethearts, The Journey of The Wrong Eyed Jesus, Cloud Atlas, Gattica, Equilibrium, Dead Poets Society, What Dreams May Come,

Music: Tool, Tori Amos, Lamb, Portishead, Bjork, Otis Redding, Alison Krauss, for more results check out this playlist
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
my camera, untouched wilderness, intellectual stimulation, literature, magick, knowledge, and diversity.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
androgyny, power exchange, ferocity, folklore, AI, metaphysics, philosophy, psychology, servitude, parallel dimensions, time travel, quantum physics.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Working on photography projects, out with friends, or enjoying a good book.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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D/s is pretty important to me. I've been involved and active in the lifestyle since my early twenties.

As a masochist, pain is a part of my "love language".

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Message me if you appreciate meaningful conversation. I'm here to meet real people who actually think and are curiously seeking knowledge outside the realm of the mundane.