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36 M Oakland, CA

My Details

Last Online
Jul 28
5′ 8″ (1.73m)
Body Type
Not at all
Islam, and somewhat serious about it
Cancer, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from med school
Relationship Status
Open relationship
Relationship Type
Mostly non-monogamous
Has a kid
English (Fluently), Other (Okay)

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My self-summary
- extroverted introvert
- liberal traditionalist
- often quietly passionate
- laid-back energizer-bunny
- playfully competitive
- Very picky with lots of pet peeves yet extremely accommodating almost to a fault
What I’m doing with my life
At the moment, enjoying fatherhood and watching my career finally take off
I’m really good at
creating new friendships and sustaining them over time. Once familiar with me, I'd say being able to listen attentively, learn on the fly, adapting to change quite well and seem to know everyone.
I'm really good at the only board game I actually own - Scrabble; dancing to any good music you might provide - often the first one on the dance floor and my partners will attest the last to leave.
The first things people usually notice about me
My very good friend once said I smile with my entire face and my eyes. Also if you can't laugh at yourself, we shouldn't be hanging out.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Remaking this as I go:

Food - really into baked goodies - brussel sprouts, asparagus and apples this spring

Bookstand - The People's History of the United States, Sycamore Row, Immortal Life of Henrietta Lacks, Song for Night, They Had A Dream

Films - Hobbits, Half Life, Wind Rises, The WhistleBlower

Recent/upcoming shows - Chappelle, Habib Koite, Fatoumata, Tinawerin
The six things I could never do without
My life would not be the same without smiles and/or laughter, a soundtrack (my Ipod), futbol, fried plantains, or a schedule/planner.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
everything I guess! Daydreaming rarely happens but I keep turning over ideas and thoughts in my mind constantly. Right now the means of achieving my future career plans have been occupying my mind.
On a typical Friday night I am
On a typical day, I could be grabbing bite at a new restaurant with friends, strolling the early side of Art Murmur, chilling at a cuddle party, or calling it an early night (after a long work-week and before a fun Saturday).
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
hmm....I'll have to sit on that
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 26–49
  • Near me
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
you're truly interested in making a real-life connection, open-minded and always willing to laugh at yourself. Ideally it would be nice if you had been in or were interested in exploring an open-relationships. I'm definitely NOT looking for pen pals.

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