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I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 24-41
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating

My details

Last online
Oct 5, 2014
5' 11" (1.80m)
Body Type
Average build
Agnosticism but it’s not important
Dropped out of University
Doesn’t have kids but might want them
English (Fluently)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Hey...I hope I've found the right place this time! Well, I can be a complicated guy, but not in a demanding way. I put pressure on myself sometimes but never others! I'm very, very loyal and I look for the same in others. I give everyone a chance, sometimes more than one if I think they're really worth it!

I have a decent job but I certainly don't live for it. I live where I live but I'll put the effort in to make it work with a guy who doesn't live here! I'm by no means desperate to have someone in my life, but I would definitely like it to happen though. But like I say, in no rush..

I don't want to go on too much...I'm definitely not your stereotypical gay lad, I love lots of things you might not expect me to, you should ask me! Any question is cool with me :-)
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I work in training and recruitment at the moment but I'm very flexible when it comes to work, but I want a break soon and I want to travel more if I can fit it in!
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Hmm...not much good at assessing myself! I can drive a bus pretty awesomely if that helps?!
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
You'd have to ask them! My eyes first apparently? and then probably my opinions, I don't tend to be backward in coming forward! But I'm respectful with it...
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Favourite book and movie is Notes On A Scandal by Zoe it! I've just watched a new film called 'Weekend', and although I'm not specifically into bespoke Gay films, it blew me away.
I daren't start talking about books as I used to work at Waterstones so it could turn into a long and boring conversation!

I love Les Miserables, can't get enough of it...

Musically, you can have 3...Kate Bush, the Guillemots and Royksopp. That's about as commercial as I get..I really do love allsorts. Actually I've just realised this a cop out having read other profiles, so here goes! Anything thats a bit pop/folk/electonica with a good, dirty beat etc is usually good with me, particularly if it is remotely Scandinavian...some of my current faves...The Radio Dept, Gotye, The Postmarks, Blue Nile, Morcheeba, Zero 7, Air, M83, Stereolab, The Whitest Boy Alive, Kings of Convenience, People Press Play, Sufjan Stevens, Josh Pyke, The Go Find, Regina Spektor, Sebasten Tellier, Timo Raisanan, The Diogenes Club, Babybird, Emiliana Torrini, Hey Negrita....I think that's enough for now don't you? I haven't even mentioned the 70's and 80's stuff I like but that will wait!

Oh and I absolutely love the piano...

Food? try me :-)
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Driving Licence
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Everything...I never seem to be able to stop thinking. I need a distraction!
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Tired! nah not always, but I do work hard I'm afraid...
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I absolutely hate cameras and know there are people who look better in a photo than in the flesh? I'm the total opposite! I will run a mile when a camera appears if I can, and that's the only reason I took my own pics...not because I'm vain or anything stupid!
You should message me if
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You're looking for a fun, interesting and adventurous guy and you can give the same in return....or even if you just want to know more about me? I seem to have encountered a couple of 'message a few times and then vanish' types which is, well, just disappointing really! Anyone who likes anything about me should message...I will always reply cos that's what I'm like...