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tothjm

26 / M / straight / Single

Fairfax, Virginia

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Ethnicity
White
Height
5' 10" (1.77m).
Body Type
Athletic
Looking For
New friends, Long-term dating, Short-term dating
Smokes
No
Drinks
Sometimes
Drugs
Never
Religion
Atheism but not too serious about it
Sign
Leo and it’s fun to think about
Education
Graduated from college/university
Job
Computer / Hardware / Software
Income
Rather not say
Kids
Likes children
Pets
Likes dogs and Likes cats
Languages
English (Fluently)

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I am confident, laid back, and funny.

My Self-Summary

alright well lets see, im 26, Just recently moved back to the northern VA area.

as far as what i look for: Im usually always getting into some kinda fun fri sat, and during the week if i feel up for it. Looking for cool people who want to join in as more friends never hurt, if your quality... i dont need flakey friends =)

In a girl its really simple: Dont argue about the small stuff, if you have a problem im all for talking it out, but dont expect me to know what your talking about, then 30 min later when i still dont know, give me the silent treatment, im not in highschool =) Being fun and laid back is a plus as thats pretty much me. High energy always welcome, and yes you CAN be laid back and still have high energy, its all in how you deal with things. And naturally i have to be attracted to you physically as well. Honesty is a big thing with me, so if you decide to write or email me, you can ask me any 3 questions and i will answer truthfully. Also take note its incredibly difficult to make me feel weird or awkward so fire away =)