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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 40–60
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating

My details

Last online
Yesterday – 2:16pm
5′ 11″ (1.80m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Other, and very serious about it
Libra, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from Ph.D program
Art / Music / Writing
Has kids, but doesn’t want more
English, French (Okay), Spanish (Okay), Russian (Poorly)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Like me, you are on this site looking for something. But you are not looking for a normal kind of relationship. In fact, you are not looking for a normal kind of life. You’ve tried to live a normal life, but you know you are destined for something bigger.

You’ve heard the call. You know you are on this earth to help humanity onto a different path. Everything you’ve done in your life up to this point has been in preparation for what lies ahead. You don’t need me for this, but together we can be and do so much more!

You know humanity stands at the edge of an abyss and that if we carry on as we are, it won’t be long before we all topple into it. You know the only way out is to put on wings and fly, with a great leap of faith, up and over and out of the abyss - transforming not just ourselves but the whole world into something new and different. Nothing will remain as before. The world will change or perish.

It will take extraordinary efforts to turn the world around before its too late. But we are not alone. Millions of people around the world are already working on this. And the power to transform the world is already within each and every one of us.

You have the power within you and you know what you have to do. But two people working on this together do not just have double the power of each of us individually. We have exponentially more power together than we do separately, because we become a new whole and the whole is more than the sum of its parts!

If you are still reading this, but thinking ‘what drugs is this guy on – or is he a total lunatic?’ then best to move on to the next guy. If you know what I’m talking about and you know it’s you I’m talking about, please send me a message or find my website! We’ve got no time to lose…
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
listening to the small, still voice within and letting it speak and sing and act through me to transform the world...
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
singing, laughing, dancing, writing...
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
my infectious smile? the twinkle in my eye? my disarming accent? the fact that I actually look like the photos on my profile?
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Books: Thoreau, Gandhi, Annie Dillard, Wendell Berry, Hannah Arendt, Martin Buber, Rainer Maria Rilke, Steven Pinker, Dorothy Rowe, Johan Galtung, Daniel Dennett, Daniel Goldman, Marshall Rosenberg, Peter Russell, Abraham Heschel, Kenneth Boulding, Jonathan Schell, Brian Swimme, Mary Oliver, Rachel Naomi Remen...

Movies: Life is Beautiful, Millions, Shawshank Redemption, All the President's Men, Battle of Algiers, Fly Away Home, 7 days and 7 nights, Gandhi, Italian Lessons, To Kill a Mockingbird, Heaven Can Wait, If!, Pushing Tin, The King's Speech, Friendly Persuasion, The Full Monty, Billy Eliot, Midnight in Paris, North by Northwest, Groundhog Day!

TV Shows: West Wing, the Daily Show, Colbert Report

Music: Bach Concerto for 2 Violins, Elgar Cello Concerto, The Magic Flute, Beethoven Emporer Concerto, Shostakovitch #5, Aaron Copland Quiet City, West Side Story, Porgy and Bess, Stephen Sondheim, Rhapsody in Blue, Bob Dylan, Pete Seeger, Joan Baez, Rolling Stones, U2, Coldplay, The Script, Sting, Katy Perry, Owl City, Maroon 5, David Wilcox, Peter Mayer, Mumford & Sons, Florence + The Machine, Kelly Clarkson, Taylor Swift!

Food: Fresh corn-on-the-cob, sautéed asparagus, cheese soufflé, baked potato, broad beans, a good beef stroganoff, corned beef hash, cole slaw with toasted sunflower seeds, haggis, stovies (another Scottish dish I will never see again), salmon, Thai Green Curry, chicken korma, real Swiss muesli...
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
There are no 'things' I could NEVER do without, depending of course on the circumstances. But if the question is what do I treasure above all else in my life, they would be my 2 daughters and my son-in-law. Apart from them, I'm pretty partial to fresh air, trees, flowers, birds, animals, grass and a body of water to feast my eyes on.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
why the world is the way it is and why people are the way they are, and how change happens in nature and in our brains and in our cultures and societies and how we can most effectively prod along and speed up those changes so that the world gets itself onto a more sustainable course before its too late.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Ideally with friends, either listening to live music or providing some live music myself!
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
hm, I'll have to think about that some more...
You should message me if
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What I have said resonates with you and you would like to explore it further!