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58 M London, UK

I’m looking for

  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 46–62
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Today – 10:06am
5′ 11″ (1.80m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Other, and very serious about it
Libra, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from Ph.D program
Art / Music / Writing
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Has kids, but doesn’t want more
English, French (Okay), Spanish (Okay), Russian (Poorly)

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My self-summary
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2nd guinea pig wanted for love experiment…

Like everyone else on here, I’m looking for love!

I’m looking for the kind of love that is going to transform both you and I into the people we are truly capable of being. I’m looking for the kind of love that is also going to transform everyone and everything we come into contact with, because it is not just an inward love but also a powerfully infectious outward-looking love. I’m looking for a love that is so powerful and infectious it is going to transform the whole world - not just our own little world in our own corner of our own little neighbourhood, but the whole world, literally!

Because I believe love is the most powerful force we’ve got in the universe – in fact, it is the force that powers the universe. It is what “drives the green shoot and drives my red blood”. It is the ‘attraction’ that pulls atoms and molecules together as well as people, the ‘bond’ that forms stars and galaxies as well as families, the ‘union’ not just of two individuals but of all kinds of entities which then become more than the sum of their individual parts. It is the ‘longing’ not just to survive but to thrive – to be with others, to procreate, to pass on what we have to the next generation – the longing that has powered the whole process of biological evolution since the first lonely amoeba headed out on a billion year search to find a mate, and it’s just gone on from there!

I believe we are now at a critical time in human history and in the evolution of life on this planet. We can either go on fighting each other and destroying the planet, or we can discover what love really means when applied on a global scale: what kind of economic system is necessitated by love? What kind of political system? What kinds of justice? How do we bring up our children on love? How do we handle our petty criminals as well as our war criminals in love? How do we resolve our differences – individually, nationally, globally – through love? What does it take to make this a more loving and caring world, where all are treated fairly and helped in their hour of need?

I’m looking for someone who believes in the power of love to transform the world. You’ve probably done a heck of a lot to make this a more loving and a more caring world already, but like me, you are now ready to take love’s work to the next level. You are ready for the ‘love experiment’ - testing the very outer limits of what unconditional love can do in the world.

And, like me, you are also human. You make mistakes, your love is imperfect, your motives are mixed, and sometimes you just have a bad day. So we are also compassionate with each other and with our failings. We support each other and stick with each other through the hard times as well as the good. And we help each other to grow and develop our potentials even as we age into our twilight years…
What I’m doing with my life
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right now, I'm writing a book, figuring out my life, and preparing for the next stage of my journey...
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
singing, laughing, dancing, writing...
The first things people usually notice about me
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my infectious smile? the twinkle in my eye? my disarming accent? the fact that I actually look like the photos on my profile?
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books: Thoreau, Gandhi, Annie Dillard, Wendell Berry, Hannah Arendt, Martin Buber, Rainer Maria Rilke, Steven Pinker, Dorothy Rowe, Johan Galtung, Daniel Dennett, Daniel Goldman, Marshall Rosenberg, Peter Russell, Abraham Heschel, Kenneth Boulding, Jonathan Schell, Brian Swimme, Mary Oliver, Rachel Naomi Remen...
Movies: Life is Beautiful, Millions, Shawshank Redemption, All the President's Men, Battle of Algiers, Fly Away Home, 7 days and 7 nights, Gandhi, Italian Lessons, To Kill a Mockingbird, Heaven Can Wait, If!, Pushing Tin, The King's Speech, Friendly Persuasion, The Full Monty, Billy Eliot, Midnight in Paris, North by Northwest, Groundhog Day!
TV Shows: West Wing, the Daily Show, Colbert Report
Music: Bach Concerto for 2 Violins, Elgar Cello Concerto, The Magic Flute, Beethoven Emporer Concerto, Shostakovitch #5, Aaron Copland Quiet City, West Side Story, Porgy and Bess, Stephen Sondheim, Rhapsody in Blue, Bob Dylan, Pete Seeger, Joan Baez, Rolling Stones, U2, Coldplay, The Script, Sting, Katy Perry, Owl City, Maroon 5, David Wilcox, Peter Mayer, Mumford & Sons, Florence + The Machine, Kelly Clarkson, Taylor Swift!
Food: Fresh corn-on-the-cob, sautéed asparagus, cheese soufflé, baked potato, broad beans, a good beef stroganoff, corned beef hash, cole slaw with toasted sunflower seeds, haggis, stovies (another Scottish dish I will never see again), salmon, Thai Green Curry, chicken korma, real Swiss muesli...
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
I'm going to reframe this one, since there is nothing I could NEVER do without, depending of course on the circumstances. But the six things I treasure above all else in my life are: my 2 daughters and soon-to-be-son-in-law (oh dear, that's 3 already!), fresh air to breathe, trees, flowers, birds, animals, grass and a body of water to feast my eyes on (we'll just call that collectively 'nature' shall we? That way it only counts as one) and a good pair of shoes to be walking in. And if you've lost count, let me add a bicycle for variety. Oh, and then there's my glasses, pen and paper for being able to write it all down (or a laptop would do). And if I'm allowed one more it would be my guitar. Hm, that leaves me looking pretty solitary. I think I could collectively call my daughters and son-in-law and all possible future grandchildren, my favourite cousins, mother and other assorted relatives as 'family' -- or even better, how about collectively 'family and friends'? That way I can include all the beautiful people I know and love and will ever know and love in the future... Yes, that's getting pretty close to covering it, apart from those intangibles like love and affection, creative thoughts, humour, my soul... oh well, I tried! What about all my books?? Good God, this will never fit into 6.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
why the world is the way it is and why people are the way they are, and how change happens in nature and in our brains and in our cultures and societies and how we can most effectively prod along and speed up those changes so that the world gets itself onto a more sustainable course before its too late. I also spend a lot of time thinking about science and religion and the interface between them and whether we can use the methods of science to reach some consensus about religion and whether we can actually outsmart science with our deepest spiritual insights...
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Ideally with friends, either listening to live music or providing the live music myself!
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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hm, I'll have to think about that some more...
You should message me if
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You are not looking for a quiet easy-going retirement, have a lot more love to give to the world and you are looking for someone to help you spread that love and make the second half of your life even more amazing than the first half!