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58 London, UK Man


I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 46–62
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Online now!
5′ 11″ (1.80m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Other, and very serious about it
Libra, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from Ph.D program
Art / Music / Writing
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Has kids, but doesn’t want more
English, French (Okay), Spanish (Okay), Russian (Poorly)

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My self-summary
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Love will save the world!

Like everyone else on here, I’m looking for love...

I’m looking for the kind of love that transforms both you and I into the people we are truly capable of being; an outward-facing love that transforms everyone and everything we come into contact with; lighting up the world everywhere we go.

I am not looking for the kind of love that is about wanting, having, owning; the kind of love that feeds on jealousy, competitiveness, exclusivity; the inward-facing love that is only about me or you or me and you, but can't see beyond 'us' to a world out there that needs us.

I am looking for that very special kind of love because 

I believe we are living at a critical time in human history and in the evolution of life on this planet. We can either go on fighting each other and destroying the planet, or we can discover what love really means when applied on a global scale: what kind of economic system is necessitated by love? What kind of political system? What kinds of justice? How do we bring up our children on love? How do we handle our petty criminals as well as our war criminals in love? How do we resolve our differences – individually, nationally, globally – through love?

I’m looking for someone who believes in the power of love to transform the world - someone who wants to take love’s work to the next level, testing the very outer limits of what unconditional love can do in the world.

And, like me, you are also human. You make mistakes, your love is imperfect, your motives are mixed, and sometimes you just have a bad day. So we are also compassionate with each other and with our failings. We support each other and stick with each other through the hard times as well as the good. And we help each other to grow and develop our potentials even as we age into our twilight years…
What I’m doing with my life
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listening to the small, still voice within and letting it speak and sing and act through me to transform the world...
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
singing, laughing, dancing, writing...
The first things people usually notice about me
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my infectious smile? the twinkle in my eye? my disarming accent? the fact that I actually look like the photos on my profile?
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books: Thoreau, Gandhi, Annie Dillard, Wendell Berry, Hannah Arendt, Martin Buber, Rainer Maria Rilke, Steven Pinker, Dorothy Rowe, Johan Galtung, Daniel Dennett, Daniel Goldman, Marshall Rosenberg, Peter Russell, Abraham Heschel, Kenneth Boulding, Jonathan Schell, Brian Swimme, Mary Oliver, Rachel Naomi Remen...

Movies: Life is Beautiful, Millions, Shawshank Redemption, All the President's Men, Battle of Algiers, Fly Away Home, 7 days and 7 nights, Gandhi, Italian Lessons, To Kill a Mockingbird, Heaven Can Wait, If!, Pushing Tin, The King's Speech, Friendly Persuasion, The Full Monty, Billy Eliot, Midnight in Paris, North by Northwest, Groundhog Day!

TV Shows: West Wing, the Daily Show, Colbert Report

Music: Bach Concerto for 2 Violins, Elgar Cello Concerto, The Magic Flute, Beethoven Emporer Concerto, Shostakovitch #5, Aaron Copland Quiet City, West Side Story, Porgy and Bess, Stephen Sondheim, Rhapsody in Blue, Bob Dylan, Pete Seeger, Joan Baez, Rolling Stones, U2, Coldplay, The Script, Sting, Katy Perry, Owl City, Maroon 5, David Wilcox, Peter Mayer, Mumford & Sons, Florence + The Machine, Kelly Clarkson, Taylor Swift!

Food: Fresh corn-on-the-cob, sautéed asparagus, cheese soufflé, baked potato, broad beans, a good beef stroganoff, corned beef hash, cole slaw with toasted sunflower seeds, haggis, stovies (another Scottish dish I will never see again), salmon, Thai Green Curry, chicken korma, real Swiss muesli...
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
There are no 'things' I could NEVER do without, depending of course on the circumstances. But if the question is what do I treasure above all else in my life, they would be my 2 daughters and my son-in-law. Apart from them, I'm pretty partial to fresh air, trees, flowers, birds, animals, grass and a body of water to feast my eyes on.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
why the world is the way it is and why people are the way they are, and how change happens in nature and in our brains and in our cultures and societies and how we can most effectively prod along and speed up those changes so that the world gets itself onto a more sustainable course before its too late.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Ideally with friends, either listening to live music or providing some live music myself!
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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hm, I'll have to think about that some more...
You should message me if
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You are a very wise and loving woman who is already tapping into the explosive power that is hidden in the depths of your soul to touch the lives of all you come into contact with. And if you sense that the two of us together could do so much more to transform the world.