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touristth

42 F Seattle, WA

I’m looking for

  • Guys who like girls
  • Ages 33–54
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 11:18am
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
Asian, White
Height
5′ 2″ (1.57m)
Body Type
Diet
Smokes
No
Drinks
Rarely
Drugs
Never
Religion
Buddhism, but not too serious about it
Sign
Pisces, and it’s fun to think about
Education
Graduated from Ph.D program
Job
Medicine
Income
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids, and doesn’t want any
Pets
Has cats
Speaks
English (Fluently)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I'm a single mutt female ultimately looking for heartfelt connection, mutual understanding, compassion, support, a best-friend, a lover and life partner. Given that I've not been here in Seattle too long, I'm also open to new friendships and short-term dating.

I describe myself a mutt because I don't believe I fall into any stereotypes as an Asian, as a scientist, as a energy healer or group exercise instructor. So I invite you to keep reading with an open mind and heart... I promise that you've not met anyone like me!

I'm a holistic healer for a happy & healthy brain, and am passionate about what I do! I'm deeply committed to my personal growth (I've come a LOOONG way (thanks to powerful methods) since I started this work), and the growth of my clients, and I'm looking for someone that values growth (and I'm not referring to your waistline), as an important part of your journey.

I'm also quite health conscious, and love outdoor activities (hiking, snow sports), and dance, yoga & rocking climbing and I eat plenty of vegetables. I also teach group exercise. While you don't need to enjoy all the same activities I do, it's important for me to be with someone who can keep up with me and who shares my values and general tastes in food.

Having lived in Hong Kong in my youth and traveled a bit through Asia, southeast Asia (Tibet, China, Thailand, India, Nepal) and beyond (New Zealand, Europe, Mexico) , I consider myself reasonably worldly, and I'd love to find someone who loves exploring diverse cultures as much as I do!

While I can be perfectly serious, let me introduce you to my more playful (smartass) side:

Oh, you want to know about me? Well I’m beautiful. That’s because I’m a woman. (I think that actually comes with the definition of being a woman, right? Isn’t that what wikipedia says?) I speak cat fluently. I’m seriously serious minded. I can spell “eseehc” forwards. I was the VP of programming at Diebold and convicted drug trafficker for Halloween, and all I had to do to look like a geek was to put on a pair of glasses. My bout with chickenpox in kindergarten destroyed my dream of being a pumpkin narrator forever.

If you think you might qualify, drop me a line. If you are a ~32-53 yr old male, bring a flower, chocolate, your sense of humor or intriguing conversation as well. It usually starts things off on the more agile and well-trained foot.

I am fun and curious, I live a purposeful life and am socially conscious.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I have a Ph.D. in Neuroscience and postdoctoral work in neuroepidemiology, and I've had a long interest in natural and alternative medicine. Now I'm applying my life long passion to understanding the root causes of problems with our brains to help people on an individual level. I'd never would have guessed just a few years ago that my life would take me in this direction, but I'm eternally grateful that it has!

My exploration with energy medicine has taken me on some wild and fascinating rides. I'm constantly being surprised about where it takes me, and the miracles I've experienced or been a part of as a result. I'm passionate about this work and feel incredibly grateful for the opportunity and priviledge to be a part of other's healing process.

Since I've moved to Seattle, I've become a regular hiker (thanks to meetups) - how can I not? I love the varied terrain here - and especially the waterfalls and alpine lakes! I also really enjoy the x-country skiing, and snow shoeing, and hope to be able to do some downhill skiing next yr!

Some of my time dancing (never enough).
Some of my time biking
some of my time doing yoga and meditating and tapping (EFT)(may there be peace in your heart and joy and mischief in your life)
Some of my time public speaking (love my toastmaster's group)
Some of my time running around Greenlake, Discovery Park and
Some of my time exploring & traveling (although not enough lately- wanna help me change that?)
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
listening, being supportive and helping people find solutions & strategies for improving their health. I'm also a pretty good dancer.

Being fun, compassionate and understanding when people open up to me, and being logical.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I think whatever people notice about me probably says more about them than me.... no?

In social situations: my positive energy! I do love to laugh and joke around.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Books:
Born Standing Up, Comfortable With Uncertainty, Kiss my Tiara, Undress me in the Temple of Heaven, The Poisonwood Bible, all of Amy Tan books, Room to Read: Leaving Microsoft to Change the World, Changing for Good, Matrix Reimprinting, The Brain that Changes Itself, Authenic Happiness

Movies: Flirting with Disaster, Slum Dog Millionaire (there are more I'm sure, but you'll need to jog my mind), Step it Up Revolution, Les Miserables, Inequality for all

Music: New Age and world music, pop

Favorite Food: Thai, Indian, Ethiopian, healthy eating, your cooking ; ) I love cooking with others!

I rarely watch TV, but I do watch (online): So you think you can dance, Smash, the Michael J Fox show, My cat from Hell, and sometimes The Daily Show,

Podcasts: Radio Lab, This American Life, NPR Health, TED
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
fresh air & the mountains
[dance]
the friendliest [cat] on the planet (mine) (warning, her mission is to charm you!)
fulfilling, supportive friendships & fun friends
my mental and physical health
healthy living
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Overcoming health challenges (as a part of my work)
my business
What I can do to help restore the middle class.
which meetup to join for my next outdoor adventure
[Sustainability]
dancing
you
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Not sure there's a typical, but I enjoy watching good movies, eating with friends, dancing, cooking, taking walks, or catching up on my favorite shows, or just decompressing.

My favorite Sat night activity is salsa dancing!
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I can do a weird trick with my tongue. (Yea.... I figured that would get your mind going!)
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
a.) if you can behave like a gentleman - I love kissing and being intimate, but I want it to be with someone that I've developed a bond with beyond the bedroom.
b.) and you live near me or if you are willing to travel for the right person
c.) and if you are confident that you can catch my attention with a well-written profile, shared values and interests.

OR
If you want to talk with me about holistic healing for a happy & healthy brain.

This quote really resonates with me:

"It's beautiful when you find someone that is in love with your mind. Someone that wants to undress your conscience and make love to your thoughts. Someone that wants to watch you slowly take down all the walls you've built up around your mind and let them inside."
-unknown author