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47 M Seattle, WA

I’m looking for

  • Straight women only
  • Ages 35–51
  • Located anywhere
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 11:12pm
6′ 5″ (1.96m)
Body Type
Scorpio, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from law school
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Has kids

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My self-summary
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Hi! I’m a productive and philosophical bachelor father of two wonderful kids. I can be goofy and witty, even at the same time. I can be intense when working. I love to talk all night, go on spontaneous road trips, watch a favorite TV series or movie on Netflix, drive into the mountains for a hike, dress up and spend a romantic night in the city—or just stay home and play and get a little wild. I’m a responsible dad (on good terms with my ex-wife) and, now that I’m dating again, I find that I’m pretty open about what I like in a woman.

She's likely to be attractive, vivacious, physically and intellectually fit—she’s honest, intelligent, and rational—and she may be insatiable and curious about the world. She has a mind, interests, tastes, hangups and a life of her own. Maybe she reads books. Maybe she does yoga. Maybe she has kids, like me—maybe not. She is definitely more witty than biting. With her softer side comes the capacity to appreciate a man who knows how to cherish what he wants.

More About Me

I’m tall, even for most men, and I think I’m more confident than cocky, though there’s probably a fine line and it’s somewhat in the eye of the beholder. Like everyone, I experience down moments at times, but those moments do not generally last very long. I enjoy good, honest communication. I love to engage in the art of conversation and I’m as eager to know and understand things now as I was when I was a child. You should know that I’m not religious, though I have a strong ethics. I absolutely love to travel. My work as a lawyer is demanding—you should know that, too—and when I get some free time, I really enjoy the moment. Above all, I’m open to what you have in mind.
What I’m doing with my life
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Being my best at work and improving my career, enjoying each moment and preparing my kids for life, practicing piano and singing/songwriting—in short, I’m living it.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
being creative.
The first things people usually notice about me
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My height—I’m tall—my intellectual side and my intensity.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books – anything by Ayn Rand, Victor Hugo and a good biography of a businessman or historical figure
Movies – I love classic movies - anything with Cary Grant, Greta Garbo and movies directed by Howard Hawks and Ernst Lubitsch
Music – 60s pop/rock (Beatles, Beach Boys, Bacharach), punk, 80s indie/alternative rock (U2, REM, Smiths), jazz/swing/standards (Ellington, Sinatra, Jobim), western swing, romantic classical (Mendelssohn, Chopin, Dvorak), some R&B/funk
Shows - Sherlock, Dr. Who, Mad Men
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Well-told stories in film and literature
Friends and stimulating conversation
Glass of fine wine, a cocktail or Scotch
High intensity strength training and getting out into the fresh air on a hike
A good meal
Appreciation and gratitude for what I’ve earned
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Everything—but not too much.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Available, playing games and reading with my kids or doing the laundry.
You should message me if
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you love your life and wouldn’t mind having a good man in it.