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35 Oakland, CA Man


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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 27–36
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Yesterday – 8:45pm
6′ 2″ (1.88m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Gemini, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from masters program
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently), Chinese (Fluently), Spanish (Okay)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Some people find my joy contagious. There's more to me than joy, but let's start with that.

I am an above average communicator and value this highly in others.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I work as a counselor and art therapist for youth. I also DJ weddings and private parties. Please do message me if your cousins bar mitzvah or quinceanera is coming up or if your cousin needs help recovering from trauma, depression, anxiety or a recent loss.

I love nature, hiking and backpacking. I seek out and soak up the most remote part of the park/forest/mountain/lake/beach.

When I get the chance I get up on stage to read or recite some of my writing. I also draw and paint quite a bit.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
staying grounded, resurrecting forgotten slang, foreign languages, chopsticks, navigation, gossip (the friendly kind!), harm reduction
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I have a distinctive and wonderful laugh.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
writers: junot diaz, milan kundera, bell hooks, jung, adam mansbach, gabriel g marquez, peter hessler

film: jodorowsky, david lynch, herzog, film noir, coen bros, donnie darko, more indie stuff

edibles: dried mangos, salmon sashimi, avacados, goat gouda, beer, wine, leafy greens, tons of beans

tunes: dusty gems of all genres, old rap, moody rock, neil young, funky junk, junky folk, jazz fusion, cumbia! , modern classical, droney stuff, electronica

shows: transparent, the bridge (swedish version)
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
paint, libraries, snacks, hot baths, silliness, friends
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
anything but sex.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
usually in a good mood.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Beer battered rat is not the most novel sounding dish I have sampled.
You should message me if
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You are open minded and feel comfortable in your own skin. You have a well nurtured creative side and are capable of laughing at yourself.