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trainofthoughts

34 M Oakland, CA

I’m looking for

  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 27–36
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Sep 24
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
6′ 2″ (1.88m)
Body Type
Fit
Diet
Mostly anything
Smokes
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Religion
Sign
Gemini, and it’s fun to think about
Education
Graduated from masters program
Job
Other
Income
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Pets
Likes dogs and likes cats
Speaks
English (Fluently), Chinese (Fluently), Spanish (Okay)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
As a tall guy who looks a bit like a combo of Bill Gates and Harry Potter, I try to stay aware of my various privileges. I also enjoy them shamelessly.

I am looking for something fun that could lead to something more. No rush though. Seriously. I'm not that serious. At all. Yet. For real.

Some find my joy contagious.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I make art and work as a therapist at a Methadone Clinic in SF. I also see clients in private practice a few nights a week and DJ corporate parties and weddings occasionally for cash. While my day jobs require a lot of empathy and focus, I spend a decent amount of time being an asshole on my days off.

Seriously though, for kicks I like to write and paint abstractions large and small. I hike often and tend to search out the most remote part of whatever park/forest/mountain/lake is near. Music was my primary focus for more than a decade while I toured and worked for several musical instrument companies. Though lately I jam, record songs and perform on very intermittent basis.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
resurrecting forgotten slang, foreign languages, chopsticks, navigation, gossip, damage control
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
tall man, white skin, nice hair? I also have a distinctive laugh.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
avocados, bukowski, curries, prince, gabriel garcia marquez, pixies, neil young, good beats, red beets, beat poets and writers, salmon sashimi, beer, mangos, karaoke, beirut, cumbia, jodorowsky, milan kundera, junot diaz, rakim, donnie darko, tribe, david lynch, david byrne, coen bros, isaac hayes, goat gouda, old rap, new art, moody rock, film noir, jung, bell hooks, cookies
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
paint, libraries, snacks, hot baths, silliness, friends
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
anything but sex.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
usually in a good mood.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I played music and worked in the entertainment industry in Shanghai for 8 years.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You are open minded and feel comfortable in your own skin. You have a well nurtured creative side and are capable of laughing at yourself.