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trajaneu

31 M Arlington, VA

My Details

Last Online
Today – 5:08pm
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
Black
Height
5′ 4″ (1.63m)
Body Type
Average
Diet
Vegetarian
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Sign
Libra, but it doesn’t matter
Education
Working on masters program
Job
Education
Income
$40,000–$50,000
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Offspring
Pets
Likes dogs
Speaks
English

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My self-summary
Ah, the self-summary. This will grow with time and when you read it you will be amazed by my wit and shocked by my candor. Preconceptions will be rewritten and minds will be blown. In the meantime, you have to deal with whatever appears below.

I arrived in August 2011 and it took a good half year before I really started to enjoy DC. I've now made a group of genuine friends now and I'm enjoying working and playing in the city.

My purpose in being here has changed with time, but I think that my plans are evolving for the better. While I'm working on rebuilding from the ground up, I'm focusing on having fun, working hard, and indulging my desire to explore.

Not to sound too much like that Jim Carrey movie, but I try to say yes to all the suggestions thrown my way. I believe that the most important question to ask is, "Why not?" There is usually not a reason.

Co-pilots welcome :)
What I’m doing with my life
I work at Georgetown University where I'm also involved in trying to get an employee social group off the ground. It's in its infancy, but I like coming up with events and trying to promote the hekc out of them.

I've recently started volunteering at a local non-profit bookstore and I'm trying to launch a new blog (a total work in progress, but I'd love for it to see the light of day!). You should ask about it.

I want to get more involved with activity groups in the city such as ones for biking and hiking. Biking has become a new passion and I do about 10 miles a day commuting to work using my Bikeshare membership.

I like trying to become more outdoorsy. I don't get to do it often, but I love camping and hiking. I once spent a month out in Yellowstone and it was the most influential experience of my life. It was so huge that it seemed impossibly beautiful and painfully fake.
I’m really good at
Making decisions, simplifying my life, being low stress, writing, and organizing people to get stuff done.

Irreverance.
The first things people usually notice about me
That I am kind. It's one thing (and a boring thing at that) to be "nice", but it is another altogether to be truly kind.

People say that I am sarcastic, but many people are wrong. I appreciate people who can be genuine.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Remember the days when people used to classify, define, judge each other based on their musical choices? Those days sucked, but since it is now requisite, here we go...

Music: K'naan, Lil Wayne, Dizzee Rascal, Bob Dylan, Pearl Jam, The Roots, Nirvana, The Clash, Pavement, Jay-Z, Notorious BIG, The Pixies, The White Stripes, MF Doom, Dr. Dre, Radiohead, Jimi Hendrix, Tricky, Wu-Tang, Gang Starr, Clipse, My Morning Jacket, Lupe Fiasco, Kanye West, Velvet Underground, Cloud Nothings, M83, Frank Ocean, Japandroids, The Black Keys, Danny Brown, Killer Mike

Movies: Pulp Fiction, Children of Men, Anchorman, Dr. Strangelove, Clerks, Gangs of New York, Spider-Man 2, Fight Club, City of God, Spinal Tap, Chasing Amy, Me You and Everyone We Know, Arrested Development, The Big Lebowski, Harold & Kumar Go to White Castle, No Country For Old Men

TV: The Wire, Deadwood, 30 Rock, The Shield, LOST, Friday Night Lights, Louie, Parks & Recreation, Cowboy Bebop

Books by author: Kurt Vonnegut, Mark Twain, Neil Gaiman, Ed Brubaker, Tolkein, Stan Lee, Tim O'Brien, Philip K. Dick, and Jeffrey Eugenides

Food: Indian, Mexican, Ethiopian, craft beer, Smoke & Barrell for vegan BBQ!
The six things I could never do without
Capital Bikeshare membership
Coffee & tea
My music collection (15 years in the making!)
Warm beds
Phone
My Wolverine claws
I spend a lot of time thinking about
How to balance my desire to have nice things and live an adult life without succumbing to rampant consumerism.

I hit reset on some life goals and ambitions recently. I'm carving a new path and figuring out the person I want to be be and the best way to be that guy.
On a typical Friday night I am
Friday nights are hopefully spent at a coffee shop (St. Elmo's!) and working on my secret blog. Jazz in the Garden is great in the summer.

Saturday is better for getting out and doing the social thing. Clarendon, Dupont, and Adams Morgan are home to my hotspots.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I thought I would hate squaredancing, but it's super fun and I volunteer DC Squaredancing now as a sound guy.

I lied about having Wolverine claws and I have strong opinions and about belts.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 22–34
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
You say "yes". Ira Glass is your hero and you can teach me about the best spots in DC. You want to join my Oregon Trail party and promise not to die of dysentery.

You feel comfortable allowing a friendship flow towards its natural culmination. I'm open to finding someone to have fun with. I also feel like I'm ready for something more serious as well. But I don't want to force either.

Or if you find this hilarious: http://www.qwantz.com/