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40 M Emeryville, CA

I’m looking for

  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 25–43
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex

My Details

Last Online
Sep 15
5′ 8″ (1.73m)
Body Type
A little extra
Mostly anything
Capricorn, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from university
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Wants kids
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently), Spanish (Poorly)

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My self-summary
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I'm an FtM dude. l'm not bi. I'm queer-identified and am romantically interested in folks who are highly immersed in the culture of femininity (whatever that means to you, as long as you like it). Oh, if only OKC offered "queer" as an option.

The things I dig about myself: i love experimenting with cooking. I love to mix love in pots and watch people eat it.
I'm down with CRT, feminist discourse and queer inquiry. I use R, excel and data to compel redress in the pursuit of social justice. I is and I ain't that everyday brutha, I both represent and (re)present. Sincerest flirtation and sexiness for the right lady. A negro got jokes and stays laughin, even when my heart is aching. I push myself to always be loving and kind to all people no matter the circumstances or what others do. My brain is well-endowed. I'm continuing to learn how to get out of my own way. I have no swag -- and I take pride in that.

That said, I'm open to who you be as long as you do you. Ya dig?
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Contributing to social justice pursuits through social policy research and evaluation... yep, data analysis. I love my freakin job and feel blessed and lucky everyday.

Learning and getting better at the lifetime hour after hour conscious practice of empathy, loving, and kindness to myself and others.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Learning. rockband drums. Public speaking. thinking. reason. procrastinating. making people laugh. laughing. Effort. Optimism. persistence.
The first things people usually notice about me
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You tell me.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Seems like these things would provide lots to connect and communicate about in person. Not this is at all a representation of my music interests... it is, never the less, on my mind in the moment.

"We woke up in the kitchen sayin how the hell did this shit happen, oh baby
Drunk in love
We be all night.
Last thing I remember is our beautiful bodies grindin up in that club.
Drunk in love
We be all night"
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
my family. my homies. my unshakeable faith in humanity. laughter. more laughter. and vision. and love.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
My stepson and how much i love him... every single day.

"Kindness in words creates confidence. Kindness in thinking creates profoundness. Kindness in giving creates love." - Lao Tzu

The difference between "intelligent" and "educated".

"What others do is their kharma. How I respond is mine." - unknown

All the valuable qualities and good in everyone I've ever met and known -- and how to push myself to focus on those beautiful things in people, especially, when I find it challenging to do so.

The constitutive nature of law on the construction of race and gender, and the ways in which law co-created both and utilized one in the construction of the other.

Remembering that 100% of what I do, say, think and feel 100% of the time is a reflection of where I am at with myself. It is never the result of someone else, circumstances or events.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Watching movies. Out with Friends. Cooking. Thinking. laughing. resting. spending the night at my sister's when I'm done with those things to be with my nephews while she works.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I flatuate. Im a bad at spelling. I'm afraid of hostility. These aren't really admissions.
You should message me if
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Just be and do you. And I'll be and do me.

We all have awesome things about us that I'm ready to recognize and appreciate. And that can be wrapped in whatever platonic, romantic, casual or intimate interaction we make of sharing space together.