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transcub
33 / M / bisexual / Available
Portland, Oregon
The Skinny
- Last Online
- Join Date
- Ethnicity
- White
- Height
- 5' 9" (1.75m).
- Body Type
- —
- Looking For
- New friends, Long-term dating, Short-term dating, Casual sex
- Smokes
- No
- Drinks
- Rarely
- Drugs
- Never
- Religion
- —
- Sign
- Leo and it’s fun to think about
- Education
- Graduated from college/university
- Job
- Artistic / Musical / Writer
- Income
- Rather not say
- Kids
- Likes children
- Pets
- Likes dogs and Likes cats
- Languages
- English (Fluently), Sign_Language (Okay), French (Okay), Swahili (Poorly), Spanish (Poorly)
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Your Notes
Edit your notesI am affectionate, exstraverted, and fun-loving.
My Self-Summary
I am an artist, activist and disability advocate.
I love my life. It has it's stressors but over all it is a good life. I have a great community, a satisfying career, loving and supportive family, and food and housing in a trying time.
I'm genderqueer. (Please know what this word means and enjoy the company of trans people). OKC needs to catch up with their users and offer more than 2 gender choices. I am also queer not bi.
I love my life. It has it's stressors but over all it is a good life. I have a great community, a satisfying career, loving and supportive family, and food and housing in a trying time.
I'm genderqueer. (Please know what this word means and enjoy the company of trans people). OKC needs to catch up with their users and offer more than 2 gender choices. I am also queer not bi.
What I’m doing with my life
I am an artist, activist and disability advocate. I'm helping to
raise children that are not mine, by blood, nor do they live with
me, but they are very important to me. I am also learning how to
grow plants and relearning how to swim.
I am in an open and honest relationship with a sweet person. He will know about you and you him. If you and I hang out and decide we may be interest in developing a deeper romantic connection, I would prefer to date you separately and not be in a triad. He very comfortable with this. For casual play, we are both open to playing with others together or separately.
I produce and direct inclusive dance and theater performances.
I am in an open and honest relationship with a sweet person. He will know about you and you him. If you and I hang out and decide we may be interest in developing a deeper romantic connection, I would prefer to date you separately and not be in a triad. He very comfortable with this. For casual play, we are both open to playing with others together or separately.
I produce and direct inclusive dance and theater performances.
I’m really good at
Being genuine. Being emotionally open and therefore connecting
deeply.
The first things people usually notice about me
I blend gender traits so much that they can't figure me out or
categorize me. I'm cute and chubby. I am bold and genuine. And if
they watch closely they may notice I walk with a limp.
My favorite books, movies, music, and food
Movies: Pillow
Book, Smoke Signals, Whale Rider, Velvet Gold Mine, Straight
Stories, Into the Wild, 10 Canoes.
Music: Simon and Garfunkle, Erasure, Brian Eno, Dar Williams, 70s Glam Rock, 80s music, some folk, some hiphop...
Food: Thai, East Indian, Crepes, Pasta, awe, hell, I like a lot of foods. Oh yeah, huckleberries...huckleberry crisp, huckleberry coffee cake, huckleberries on ice cream, in cereal, right off the bush.
Note: I don't feel favorites tell much about compatibility
Music: Simon and Garfunkle, Erasure, Brian Eno, Dar Williams, 70s Glam Rock, 80s music, some folk, some hiphop...
Food: Thai, East Indian, Crepes, Pasta, awe, hell, I like a lot of foods. Oh yeah, huckleberries...huckleberry crisp, huckleberry coffee cake, huckleberries on ice cream, in cereal, right off the bush.
Note: I don't feel favorites tell much about compatibility
The six things I could never do without
My community,
children, art, sleep, food, love, touch, passion. Oops, that's 8.
Oh and trees... big trees and large bodies of water. My
collaborators and fellow artists. Yep, I am not into limiting my
choices or experience. I guess technically I could "do" without
many of these things but my quality of life would be diminished.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
My chosen
family and some of my blood family. Dance, theater, art, human rights, the wilderness,feminism, anti-racism and gender, disability rights, community, building
authentic connections and
friendships, communication, sex, kink
On a typical Friday night I am
It's different every week. I work when I am needed or I need to
accomplish something. I play when I'm not working. I sleep when I
can and I'm tired. I eat.
I love walking in gardens, oh and I often sit on fences ;).
I love walking in gardens, oh and I often sit on fences ;).
The most private thing I’m willing to admit here
I’m a kinky switch, meaning I am into consensual BDSM. I also love fully present
vanilla sex. I have bottomy tendencies and would love to meet a
talented top. Personality and respect is more important than skill.
You should message me if
People of all genders, races, classes, abilities and ages 21 over
welcome to respond. I prefer the company of people who rarely use
non-prescription substances or do not use at all (including
alcohol).
Honesty and some negotiation are essential.
***Forget discreet encounters, let's kiss in public.***
Honesty and some negotiation are essential.
***Forget discreet encounters, let's kiss in public.***
