I will never "fit in" or try to. I'm far happier just being myself. I speak my mind and my truth always (unless I'm at work in which case I hold back. but only a little ;o) ) because humoring people is exhausting and unnecessary. I would rather have a few people in my life who love me for I actually am, instead of carrying on the facade of being friends with everyone.
Be real and kind. No need to hide who you are. The weirder the better. 😊