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trastamare

53 San Antonio, TX Man

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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 37–55
  • Located anywhere
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating

My details

Last online
Yesterday – 4:20pm
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
Other
Height
6′ 4″ (1.93m)
Body Type
Fit
Smokes
No
Drinks
Rarely
Drugs
Never
Religion
Atheism, and laughing about it
Sign
Scorpio, but it doesn’t matter
Education
Graduated from Ph.D program
Job
Education
Income
Rather not say
Status
Single
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids
Pets
Likes dogs and likes cats
Speaks
English (Fluently), Spanish (Okay)
My self-summary
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So difficult to encapsulate one's self. I like Spanish guitar music at dusk. Photography at dawn when the light is the best. And exploring everything around me in between.... preferably on foot or on bikes. While I can be exceptionally talkative if need be, the ultimate objective is that sublime harmony that requires little discussion -- just a whimsical economy of smiles. There is nothing sweeter in Life than that. I'm intensely athletic more as a philosophy rather than a necessity....love old jeeps and Victorian houses...and well...perhaps most importantly...in an increasingly alienated world, I have maintained my childlike desire to re-write reality to service our imagination (rather than vice-versa).
What I’m doing with my life
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I write, I teach, and I travel, preferably in good company, at a casual pace, and in good humor.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
...planning all my rash moments, and the ones I don't plan, I postpone in favor of spontaneity.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
..is that I have spotted their sudden anxiety. :)
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Book: Barbara Tuchman -- "A Distant Mirror"
Movie: Mike Leigh -- "Naked"
Food: Pistachios
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
1) Hope. Hope to feel plenitude. Little else is worthy of it.
2) Vigorous Exercise. Not purely to serve vanity.....but as a means to stay in contact with life and youthful mindlessness. Exertion is an investment in hope.
3) Natural landscape. The only place that the numinous can be consistently tapped.
4-6) Casually chucked them.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
...tortilla de patata with some almond-flavored Indian naan.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
...roughly south of the North Pole.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
...is that fashion bubbliness and bumper-sticker optimism is off-putting. The authentic brand of both is all the more enjoyable when it spontaneously emerges from depth and mutual harmony, and was never considered a practical policy or a moral statement. I've unmasked the most pernicious and squalid creatures writhing about up under these 'popcorn and silly-string' facades.
You should message me if
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.......you're serious about getting to know each other, whoever you 'really' are....and whatever is the particular character of your world.