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38 Oakland, CA Woman


I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 30–46
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Jan 18
5′ 6″ (1.68m)
Body Type
Taurus, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from university
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids, but wants them
Has dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently), Spanish (Poorly)

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My self-summary
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Create, explore, wander, love, laugh and fill in the windows with adventure. There it is…my aspirations in a nutshell. Come on, the majority of you will lean heavily on the photo section. If that's enough then please go ahead and message me and we can do the “all about me” part over a drink. For those of you who need more….

Hmmmm….notable stuff. This is where you will roll your eyes or get a lil warm n fuzzy. I think kindness is under rated and hold myself accountable. I work on making it more about community and an incredible group of misfit family-friends than work, but I bust butt when I need to. Volunteer-wise, I advocate for foster kids through the court process and try my damnedest to get a few in safe homes. I traveled the world for 2.5 Years in developing countries and came back with a more balanced perspective. I acquired my lil pup partner in crime and packed up my city place and bought a house in the Oakland Hills. It reigned in my gypsy (for now) and has been a perfect change for me. After city life it's awesome to grow a garden and I have a pretty impressive workshop growing. I like to design and build things, so having space for that is fun.

Nature is where it's at for me. Stick me on a boat or under water in a clear blue ocean and I'm happy. I'm bravest and at my most zen while diving. Love skiing, camping, hiking, beach. With that said, I love the energy of life in the city. It’s fun to see what's new to discover...galleries, shows, events, restaurants, dancing etc. There is nothing like spending a night in with an awesome someone. Seriously, with someone I enjoy, I'd be cool in an empty box.

Ok, enough of me…I’m awesome, I’m sure you are incredible…however, are we potentially a good cocktail? I'm not one to make a list of "wants" for a person. It's usually the surprises and diversities that I fall for. Be genuine, decent, interesting. I suppose you’d have to like dogs and kids, or have aspirations to include them in your life to some degree. I try to add people into my life who deserve to be there and keep the riffraff at bay. I find people who take initiative very sexy ;) Oh, and who have passion...about something....or everything....not nothing.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I have a good gig in the commercial Architecture and Design industry along with a few other interests that keep me clothed and fed and housed.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
I'm crafty and resourceful
The first things people usually notice about me
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you tell me ;)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
all sorts of things...I'm the curious type
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
you never can tell...I'm all over the place.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over. want to :D I don't bite. Let's see if we have some things in common. I have no bias to race, religion, etc....we are all one ;)