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38 F Oakland, CA

I’m looking for

  • Men who like women
  • Ages 30–46
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Today – 4:45am
5′ 6″ (1.68m)
Body Type
Taurus, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from university
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids, but wants them
Has dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently), Spanish (Poorly)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Update...moved to Oakland and ready to explore this side of the bridge...been back a year and really should probably redo this profile...but...

Hey! I have recently returned to SF after traveling the world for 2.5 years. It was amazing, challenging and added so much to the person I am. I'm excited to be home and to rediscover this city. I'm adventurous, can get a few laughs from people (usually), and am sincerely kind. I aspire to live my life fully in all aspects and have been doing a great job so far. It would be incredible to share that with someone special. I'm open to friendships and certainly more if there's a connection.

Nature is where it's at for me. Stick me on a boat (ANY boat) and I'm happy. Love skiing, camping, hiking, beach, diving. With that said, I love the energy of life in the city. I'm always looking into what's new to discover...galleries, shows, events, etc. I spend a decent amount of time getting involved in the community and volunteering for various organizations. I'm a CASA volunteer for foster kids and find it challenging and rewarding. Recently, I've been working on honing up my cooking skills, and get a kick out of hitting the farmer's market in the hood and buying whatever I don't recognize. Not always a success, but I haven't made anyone sick yet....I hope :P

Diversities intrigue me, so don't let this crazy rating system sway you from contacting me. It's usually the differences in people I am attracted to. Just be a kind, a decent person who is willing to put yourself out there and I'm game. Oh, it wouldn't hurt if you're fun with a sense of adventure :D
What I’m doing with my life
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HA! It seems to change quite a bit, but don't get that confused with being a slacker. I have all sorts of goals/interests.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
I'm crafty and can fix or put together most things.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
you tell me ;)
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Seriously way too many to list...I don't know where to start. Books...anything Malcolm Gladwell, design or travel related. Movies...Charlie and the Chocolate Factory ;) I don't get to movies much, but not opposed to the idea. I watch more documentaries and indies than major studio stuff or TV shows. I am completely happy to see live music of any kind...almost.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
the future. people I care about.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
you never can tell...I'm all over the place.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over. want to :D I don't bite. Let's see if we have some things in common. I have no bias to race, religion, etc....we are all one ;)