Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I believe in love. Yep, I do. I believe in butterflies and that
deep aching in your soul every moment you're apart.
Actually, that’s not love. That’s infatuation. It’s a funny thing
that happens in the brain, and it’s fairly well understood by
But I do believe in love. I believe in respecting my partner, and
putting her needs ahead of my own at times. I believe in being open
and willing to have my own beliefs challenged and possibly changed.
I believe in taking risks and allowing myself to love and be loved,
even if it means making myself vulnerable and maybe getting
I believe in love.
Love is so powerful that people have long been willing to fight and
die for it, but I’m not saying I will die for you. Maybe, it
depends. The thing is, Hollywood has done us men an injustice, it
paints men as unrealistically as porn paints women. If you’re
looking for that guy here, you should probably know – I’m
I’ve lived an interesting life and can hold my own in most
conversations. Some random tidbits about me:
Most life changing experience: I spent six months
traveling in Africa by any means possible from “Cape to Cairo” and
wrote a book about the experience. I traveled by cargo ship, rail,
hitch-hiked, and spent more time in chicken buses than can be good
for anyone's health.
Closest to death: I got caught in a riptide while
surfing and pulled ridiculously far out to sea, or it could be the
time I had a gun put to my head in South Africa.
Gutsiest thing I ever did: Leaving a very secure
and well paid job as a college instructor because it prevented me
from achieving my travel and writing goals.
My close friends are very important to me and I'm not going to give
them up for you (but will give them less time) and my sister is one
of my closest friends.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Attempting to make a living as a fiction writer while settling for
a good income writing advertising and travel articles and working
as a manager for a tourism company. I can't do the the starving
I live an active life - snowboard in winter,
wakeboard in summer and am always up for a new adventure.
I am well-traveled - 44 countries and
I am educated - both in terms of a university
education and travel smarts, which I believe is as valuable as
anything a classroom can provide.
I am physically and financially in good shape - am
no stranger to the gym and own my own condo and drive a nice
Although I could never label myself as one thing, I relate to the
secular humanist movement. I believe in the empowerment of women. I
believe the scientific method is arguably the greatest human
achievement (since it led to the development of the iPhone -wink-).
I do not think homeless people are lazy and believe our treatment
of the mentally ill and homeless is abominable.
That probably makes me sound pretty serious. That's only my deeper
side which few people see. Generally I'm a fun guy who knows how to
have a good time.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Making lists of things I'm good at. Trust me on this.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
After I've captured your attention with my magnetic eyes and
take-charge demeanor, your knees will grow weak at the sight of my
muscled physique. Other than that, I have no idea. I've been told I
have a nice smile.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Books: Huckleberry Finn, To Kill a Mockingbird, and The Lord of the
Rings are old favorites.
Movies: too many to mention.
Music: way too many to mention (my tastes can be eclectic and I
usually answer "good music.")
Shows: don't have cable and rarely watch TV. When I stream TV, I
tend towards documentaries or witty comedies.
Food: Sushi, Mexican, Mediterranean, and anything healthy.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
I have to say I don't have a typical Friday.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I have polydactyly. NO that's a lie, doctor chopped the extra
digits off when I was a baby. OK, that's a lie too.
Ummm, let me think about this one...
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You want to be loved, treated with respect, don't want to play
games, isn't into drama, and will offer the same in return.
You don’t have to be the most beautiful girl in the world, the most
fit and active person, or a PhD in anything. You don’t have to like
the same sports as me, share my taste in music, or movies, or
television shows. Although that helps, it would be nice if you have
some different interests so we can challenge and learn from each
For me chemistry is everything. In other words, we have to connect:
Physically - we have to be attracted to each
other; Mentally - we have to like and trust each
other, and be able to communicate and converse about meaningful
things (e.g. not gossip); and Sexually - I've
heard I'm not supposed to talk about that on a dating site, but it
I’m over my clubbing every weekend days. I still enjoy going out,
but I’m not looking for a girl who’s just looking to party and play
They say the camera adds ten pounds, but I've noticed some people
have magic cameras that subtract a lot more. If your photos were
taken with one of these magic cameras, please don't contact me.
It's wasting both of our time. I look like my photos, you should
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