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60 Victoria, British Columbia, CA Woman


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I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 53–63
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating

My details

Last online
Aug 26
5′ 4″ (1.63m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Has kids, but doesn’t want more
Likes cats
My self-summary
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Welcome to the world of me.... Defining me. I am a person who is never stopped by life. Maybe at times for a time, and then I pick myself up and continue to move forward on this journey called my life. I am so grateful for my journey and where I am today.

One of my passions is dancing and when I dance, I love the feeling of freedom and being one with the universe that I experience . I am also passionate about working with people creating colour and design work, both personally and in their home. I also love to dig in my garden and grow wonderful veggies and also my soul food, flowers. Cooking is for sure another one of my passions. Different ethnic foods are great any time.

My family is a big part of my life though my children are all grown and having children of their own. I am a grandmother of eight beautiful souls. Yup !!! Crazy even when I say it !!! Yikes.... I think they're done....

I'm actually a softy at heart and can become emotional at the mere sight of one of my grandchildren playing, a great song, a book that changes my perspective or even the beauty of the day.

There are never enough hours in my life to read all of the incredible books in the world. And then there are the great movies and interesting people and adventures yet to take.....

I enjoy interacting with people in great conversations that have me think, question, laugh, ponder and even challenge me to take on something new.

Travel is my latest passion. As I create the time I will do more. I have been to Mexico, Hermosa Beach many times, San Fran. too many times to count, Seattle and also Italy for my 55th birthday to name a few. Belize was my latest adventure.

My friends would describe me as a true friend, honest, reliable and fun. I am a Gemini and what that means for you is that you will hopefully never be bored in a relationship with me. Variety is my spice of life.

I have to be attracted to you, my mate and I love that rush of butterflies I get when you look at me from across the room. I love passion, affection and the closeness and intimacy of being couple.

Physically, today I may have red and pink hair and tomorrow it may all be gone. I'm also not skinny, nor do I want to be. If Barbie is what you're looking for thank you and keep looking. Me, I'm like an expensive bottle of wine....Worth every dollar....

Having said all of this let the games begin....
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Well I am always up to lots of things. In my personal life, I am currently taking on my health and fitness and bringing it to a new level.
I'm usually taking a course or seminar often related to personal growth.
I love to travel and explore new places and people.
Reading, cooking, dancing, curling, swimming, walking.
Grew up playing cards and board games and still enjoy them today.
Enjoy creating dinner parties and get togethers with friends or family.
Love to be in my garden and the outdoors when it is warm.
Simply loving life...
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
I am a pretty good cook. My father was a chef at the Royal York Hotel in Toronto and his gift rubbed off on his daughters.
I also love to dance. I just go out there and have fun.
I would also have to say that I am really good at being a good friend and Mother for my children of which I have four.
I am also a fair boss. I believe in being fair with my staff and treating everyone as I would like to be treated.
At this stage of life I hope that I know what I am good at. It took me long enough to get here......
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
The first thing that people notice about me are my eyes. I have big blue eyes. Or perhaps it would be my smile. And then it would probably be my hair. I change it often. Did I mention that? LOL Colour, style, length. What can I say? I like variety. I have also been told I have a memorable laugh.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Wow. There are so many amazing books that I have read and that have had an impact on my life. One that stands out for me is a book called 'A Fine Balance' by Rohinton Mistry. Incredible writer and story teller.

I love movies that make me laugh, also movies that have a profound message about life lessons, and also the oldies, musicals, classic old westerns, comedies. Across the Universe was incredible. Shawshank Redemption, Same time next year, Life as a House, The Fisher King, Austin Powers, Little Big Man. What can I say. I like movies. I no longer watch television. I have been turned off, literally for over a dozen years....

I still love old rock and roll. I also love to listen to Italian and Spanish music, as well as dancing to the blues, listening to classical, some jazz. A bit of country. And my two favourite singers are still Nat King Cole and Bette Midler.

Food. The sky is the limit. I love so many varieties and cultures of food. I am always looking for new dishes to try. I must admit, I'm not into weird animal parts though.....
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
My family and friends
Music and dancing
Physical activities
Passion and intimacy in my romantic relationship
Great food
Education whether through books, life or schooling
I know this is way more then six; are you counting?... but I have to add the outdoors. Mother Nature fills my soul.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
I guess I have spent a lot of time thinking over the years about my purpose for being here on this journey. I've thought about the decisions that I have made through out my life and the impact that those decisions have had on my children, good and bad. I live in gratitude for where my life has led me and who I am today as a person, a Mother, a Grandmother, and friend.
Today I am still busy in life and at times I also ponder about my future partner and what our lives will be like as we create us.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
What is typical? Not for me. I can be at home, with friends, out to dinner, on and on. I love to socialize and I also love quiet time. A home body I am not. I have a great balance of both.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I love food. And I love good popcorn. Not just popcorn, but popcorn with butter. Grew up with it being our Saturday night treat while watching the hockey game.
Also, at times I think I should have been born of another nationality because I love so many other ethnic foods.
You should message me if
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You should message me if you are a gentleman who is busy in your life. You are physically fit and active and care about your appearance. You are moving in a forward direction in your personal growth and development. You contribute back to community; you enjoy travelling; you're honest; you enjoy your family; you like to laugh and have fun; and .... you are willing to get to know me first to see if we are a fit.

Well heck.... then drop me a line. LOL

No smokers. Thanks but no thanks.