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31 F Brooklyn, NY

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My self-summary
Born and raised in the California Bay Area. Moved out here four years ago. Modern dancer. Avid baker. Snotty cheese and whiskey enthusiast. Fairly private. Somewhat profane. Mostly nocturnal. (Thanks, serving job.) Homebody-ish tendencies, although it occurs to me that I actually like vacations, once I force myself to go on them. I have intense opinions. (Scorpio.)
What I’m doing with my life
Negotiating the balance between my dance life and all the other stuff that comes with living in this city.
I’m really good at
Listening and giving feedback.

Drinking on a empty stomach. Actually this is terrible/awesome.

Giving people with no spatial awareness the stink eye.

Cheering people up when they've had a rough day. I'll share my one (and only) bad joke, give you a massage and tell you that you are pretty, until you feel better.
The first things people usually notice about me
I'm short. Blond asian. Red lipstick. Usually speeding my way to somewhere (from the train), while wearing an expression of fixed indifference and giant shoes or alternatively, laughing really loudly while pretending to be a t-rex.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Books: Kafka on the Shore, Norwegian Wood, The Hours, An Everlasting Meal, The Awakening, Lolita, Hocus Pocus, The Theory of Light and Matter. I am having a bit of a moment with Jeffery Eugenides and Michael Cunningham. Currently enjoying my first foray into Phillip Roth.
Music: The Decemberists, Camera Obscura, PLANNINGTOROCK, The Black Keys, Florence + the Machine, Beirut, Yeah yeah yeahs, Bon Iver, Lykke Li, The Magnetic Fields, Rufus Wainwright, Sleigh Bells, Lana del Rey. I am rather enamoured with the new St.Vincent. Sometimes when I roll pastry, I sing Taylor Swift. Sorry I'm not sorry.
TV: I think 65% of my enjoyment of Elementary stems from the wistful nostalgia I feel for the time I had hair like Lucy Liu.
The six things I could never do without
Movement as a form of expression.

A hat. Beanie in the winter, straw in the summer.

Coffee/Whiskey. Depending on the hour.

Quiet time alone, where I can zone out, getting nerdy reading a recipe blog entry for something made with brown butter.

Alternatively, my friends, who will call me out on my hermit bullshit and push me in to trying new things.
Edit: I am much less of a hermit these days, but still really enjoy aforementioned friends during various adventures.

My family. The older I get, the more I appreciate them.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Why asparagus is on any menu in January. This is a question.

How to be a nicer, more compassionate, less grumpy, more open and observant human being. It's a work in progress.
On a typical Friday night I am
Working. Wanna hang out on Monday or Tuesday?
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I don't particularly desire a puppy or a baby, but I will happily fawn over yours. (This is more true of the dog than the child.)
I’m looking for
  • Guys who like girls
  • Ages 29–40
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
If you have at least a passing interest in food, are the kind of person who gives up his seat on the train for an elderly or pregnant person, and are spatially aware.

If you don't speak in cliches. You don't, for example, "work hard, (and) play harder" and are looking for "a partner in crime" with whom to "live life to the fullest." Also, you don't punctuate random, unfunny sentences with, "lol." Or refer to your dude friends as "brah."

If you want to check out some live music. I am trying to do this more often. (Or any other somewhat cultural adventure.)

Alternatively, if you are my nemesis. I'm curious. In my mind, your interests include not recycling while kicking puppies and advocating for abstinence only sex education.