Help your potential matches find common interests.
I have a strange relationship with music - I love it, as pretty
much everyone does, but I seldom want to go out and hear it live...
there is something "just not right" about sitting there and
demanding of someone, no matter how talented, to "entertain
by far, the best musical moments of my life have taken place in a
friend's living room, or at 3am at a closed-down pub, when my
friends and I are participating all together in a music or song
session of some kind and everyone plays or sings together, and the
harmonies swell up and threaten to take you away somewhere far away
from this earth and one transcends anything one can hear at the
Iron Horse or a local club
I read voraciously - a lot of contemporary "literary" fiction and
boigraphies of people I think are cool, and social histories- with
a particular interest in the history of New York City, and the
I balance this out with a fascination with "noir" and "hardboilded"
I try to read something of a spiritual nature everyday
movies - wide range here - especially love 70s films - Altman,
Scorsese, Coppola - good current indies and classics (this is what
we show at my theater) ... late at night, after a hard day of work,
can veg out to any kind of Hollywood trash, the more mindless the