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28 Ottawa, Ontario, CA Woman


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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 24-45
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex

My details

Last online
Nov 25
Gay, Queer, Lesbian
Open relationship
Relationship Type
5' 7" (1.70m)
Body Type
Used up
Special Diet
Two-year college
Doesn’t have kids but might want them
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.

I will start by acknowledging I am a settler living on Algonquin Territory.

My life is a wonderful, surreal thing :) I am a radically-minded individual and a feminist. I love to learn and have new experiences. I am currently following one of my dreams and learning how to farm in a sustainable, organic way. I love to grow food and I love the community that comes along with that. This is a job that actually feels freeing.

I love to be out in nature, enjoy art ( I even try my hand at it a bit) , relax , journal and enjoy that first cup of coffee in the morning ( with some cinnamon and honey). I am a bicycle enthusiast, I just finished the west coast( Victoria to Mexico) and the desert ( San Diego to the grand canyon) ! I feel I will be taking up bicycle mechanics this winter... You know, to balance out all that cash I won't be making as a farmer , haha.

I am an open-minded person who likes open minded, openly communicative people who respect and do not push boundaries. It is wonderful finding like-minded beings. I find a lot of things funny and find myself laughing quite a bit...... I think it may be because this world is just hilarious and crazy.On a more serious note I value awareness around the shitty oppressive structures such as colonialism, the patriarchy, classism, ageism, racism, ableism, queerphobia and what the hell we are going to do as people to dismantle them.

I have a long term partner who is immensely supportive and awesome, . I am seeking out casual, caring, connective experiences. I am looking for friendships ( with or without a sexual connection). I feel that in any relationship friendship comes first for me, then where ever things go from there.

I just think consent is the bees knees :)

Oh, and my pronouns are her/she.

The options for "what I am looking for" should include womyn, genderqueer, genderfluid and trans folk. Not into cis dudes or interested in being the third for a couple. Do not message me if you fit either criteria, you are wasting both my time and your's.
What I’m doing with my life
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Living day by day really. I do not have a set structure to how my life is going to unfold, at the moment I am farming and will continue to do so. I am always finding ways to create myself more fully, I hope to develop my artistic self more as well as be really good at crafting and fixing things .

I love to be in the sun, in the ocean or cuddled up somewhere. yeaaaahhh.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
climbing the tippy tops of trees to get the apples awayupthere.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
My laugh and pleasantly shaped skull.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Graphic novels
East of Eden- John Steinbeck
To Kill a Mockingbird- Harper Lee
Howl and other poems- Allen Ginsberg
How to homestead
Martitime Northwest Gardening Guide
Fear and Loathing in Las Vegas - Hunter S. Thompson

Alison Bechdel, Margaret Atwood

so many others! and I am always open to recommendations

Donnie Darko
Eternal Sunshine of the Spotless Mind
Kill Bill
Benny and Joon
The Fountain

Scifi is fun!

I just watched " The Fault in Our Stars" recently.... it was really well done.


The Cranberries
Rae Spoon
The Dead Kennedys
The Weakerthans
Joni Mitchell
Bikini Kill
mazzy star
Hurray for the Riff Raff

and so much more!
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
radical people
human touch
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
what I want to eat for dinner
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
at a music show, a film, sharing food with others, talking long into the night and if I am lucky have someone to cuddle up with :)
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I keep a journal. I love 80s pop music
You should message me if
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you like what you've read :)