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I’m looking for

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  • Ages 28–40
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

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Last online
Sep 23
5' 11" (1.80m)
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My self-summary
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Okay, a succinct snapshot of me. Travel and exploring new places within the city are important to me, as is finding the time to enjoy the subtle things in life.

Personality wise, I am genuine, loyal, driven and have a healthy dose of sarcasm. I tend to gravitate to those who are active, have broad interests, are modest, secure with what they don't know, and who embody a good balance between practicality and whimsical pursuits.

I would like to meet someone who is passionate about what they do, engaged and productively critical of the world (i. e., cognizant of current events and doing their part to take a stand on issues that matter to them), who has a big heart, empathy, and who sees life as a quest for authentic experience rather than the accumulation of stuff.
What I’m doing with my life
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Recently gave up a job as a bond fund manager in San Francisco to try my hand at public policy here in NYC.

Outside of work I enjoy traveling (I'm a fan of both urban and outdoorsy adventures, athletics (mostly running and mountain trekking, whenever I can), wine tasting, trying to find the best cup of coffee in the city (I hail from Portland, OR, so good coffee is a core need) reading a good work of literature or a history book, watching films + documentaries, and scrounging for deals on nice furniture.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Listening and asking questions

Detecting BS from a mile away

Finding outstanding bottles of wine for cheap

Zooming through airport security

Sleeping in on Saturdays
The first things people usually notice about me
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Never polled anyone, couldn't tell you: )
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Currently reading, or have just read: Kim, Nixonland, Game Change, Hollywood (by Gore Vidal), Netherland, The Black Swan, Kicking Away the Ladder, This Side of Paradise.

Some of my favorite reads: You Shall Know Our Velocity, Farewell Waltz, Anna Karenina, Mrs Dalloway, Master and Margarita, The Possibility Of An Island.

Flicks: Eternal Sunshine of the Spotless Mind, The Fog of War, Lost in Translation, Kiss Kiss Bang Bang, House of Sand, Drugstore Cowboy

Music: Neil Young, Herbie Hancock, Blur, Radiohead, Papercuts, Joy Division, Talking Heads
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
(i) Autumn
(ii) Mountains
(iii) Green and Orange
(iv) Thought provoking conversation
(v) Brick buildings and brownstones
(vi) The knack to find the silver lining in life's set backs, and ability to find humility in success
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Marveling at how everything got here.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Whatever circumstance throws my way.
You should message me if
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You are not afraid to say "hi"