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54 M Berkeley, CA

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6′ 4″ (1.93m)
Body Type
Strictly anything
Judaism, but not too serious about it
Graduated from Ph.D program
Science / Engineering
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Has a kid
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently), Norwegian (Okay), Chinese (Poorly), Spanish (Okay), German (Poorly)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
But really, the subtext is sex, romance, love and touch, everything else is beside the point, no matter the hand waving, lists, demands, etc.

I think creativity, kindness, bravery and loyalty, loving and being loved are essential parts of a well lived, consequential life, and again, this doesn't matter at all here, nor the fact that I'm to the left of people who are to the left of Ralph Nader, unapologetically and non-stridently so.

yes, these on-line sites are kind of sucky, there is so much fear, loss, delusion, cult of the busy, hubris, sadness and alienation - and yet there is still hope or perhaps in Beckett's words "We cannot go on, we cannot go on........we must go..... dancing" (I might have gotten this a bit mixed up)
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
lived overseas many years, speak other languages, gainfully employed doing the spatial epidemiology of violence in the most dangerous cities in the US and I'm a working poet (hence the day job). My photos are current and my age is accurate. I suppose I could say something funny, tell you how much I love being outside, exercising often, going out dancing, appreciating being alive, etc, but that's hardly news or distinguishing.
No accounting for the vagaries of taste, chemistry, and the like - so this is just a start.
I like being in long term relationships.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
I'm a noticing machine, never taking "it" for granted
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Gentle and strong, twinkle in the eye (or that I'm tall/too tall, attractive/not attractive)
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
watch TV all the time, commercials are great! I mean everyone loves reality TV, right? And I mean, what can you say about the old two and a half men? And I love eating vegan raised veal and my old Leopard fur jacket is wearing thin, anyone know where I can get a new one.? And I seem to have no ability to reach my inner child, I love reading books about self-unimprovement.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
in a fetal position, drooling and rocking in front of my computer opened to an on-line dating site. "my precious, my precious...."
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
that it's cringe worthy when you see answers here like "well it wouldn't be private then would it?" or "I'll tell you later..." Puh-lease.

so little playfulness, creativity, courage, at the least, make it up!
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 18–100
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
if you're have (most of) your teeth, (or at least good dentures) aren't throwing gang signs (too obviously)
and if you're wicked creative, smart, brave, kind
and un-apologetically the opposite of puritanical, I'm game